I get what i want from others
I get what i want from others
29 Ways to Get What You Want From Others
As marketers, we are used to trying to influence people to make a purchase, but what about when you want to influence someone to do you a favor or agree with your opinion? Influencer marketing can be powerful — and there are many subtle tactics you can use to sway non-believers to your point of view.
How strong are your influencing skills? Next time you are struggling to get your opinion heard, use one of these 29 tips to sway others to your way of thinking. It may not be magic, but it’s pretty close.
1. Make It Their Idea
People are much more inclined to push for their own idea rather than someone else’s. Let’s say you’re a restaurant looking to increase your online orders. Maybe you want to build a mobile friendly version of your website, but aren’t sure if your coworker (or whoever is making the call) will agree. Your conversation could go a bit like this:
Coworker: We really need to increase online orders this quarter.
You: I’ve read that more people these days are placing orders on mobile devices. It’s too bad we don’t have a mobile-friendly site.
Coworker: Maybe we should build a mobile-friendly version of our site?
You: Really? Do you think so? Yeah, that might work!
Coworker: Let’s move forward with this.
The downside here is that you don’t get credit for the idea, but if you’re responsible for the bottom line (in this case, increasing online orders) or have a bigger end goal in mind, using tactics like these helps get others on board.
2. Ask For Favors
It may seem counter-intuitive, but asking someone for favors will actually make them more likely to help you out in the future. Studies have shown that scientists who asked for a personal favor from subjects were rated more highly in subject evaluations than those that didn’t ask for favors. Why? Your brain figures if you were willing to go out of your way for a person, they must be someone you like!
3. Shoot For The Moon, Land On The Stars
Another strategy for getting what you want? Ask for too much. Individuals will feel bad for turning down your first request, making them more likely to say yes to your second request (which is what you really wanted in the first place).
4. Stop The Self-Sabotage
You’re your own worst enemy. Jerk. So often we talk ourselves out of opportunities, thinking we don’t have the skills, experience, smarts, or talent to do something. The truth is you’ll never know if you don’t try.
5. Sincere Appreciation
In How to Win Friends and Influence People, Dale Carnegie notes that people crave sincere appreciation — not empty flattery. Most of us have pretty good BS meters, and while flattery is enjoyable, the real way to win a person over is through sincere appreciation. Find what you like about someone and tell them.
6. Questions Over Orders
Rock beats paper. Questions beat orders. People are more inclined to be agreeable and follow your lead when you offer questions over orders. For example, “Could you get this done by this afternoon?” vs. “Get this done by this afternoon.” You’ll get the same results, but orders leave others feeling resentful, while questions encourage others to prove themselves to you.
7. Lay On The Praise Thick
If you want to get someone on your side, don’t be stingy with your praise. Humans eat up praise like a turkey dinner. Praise makes others feel good about themselves, making them in turn feel good about you, the praise dispenser. Just make sure the praise is genuine.
8. Find Common Ground
The quickest way to another’s puppet strings is to find common ground. You both love playing Madden? You both watch Game of Thrones (AND read the books?) You both spend your weekends scouring beaches with metal detectors? Find a common interest or connection with those you want to influence, and milk it for all it’s worth. If you really want to be clever, do some Facebook stalking to learn more about the individual you want to win over (which makes those coincidental common interests much more likely to come up in conversation).
9. Give Someone a Good Reputation to Follow
Set the bar high for an individual, and they will strive to meet it. Set certain expectations, and they’ll follow them. An office example might be telling Fred (and others on your team) that Fred is going to create an awesome company newsletter — you just know it’s going to look incredible because Fred is so good with that stuff. You can bet that Fred will try hardest to make that newsletter look ridiculously amazing to match the praise he’s received.
10. Show Genuine Interest in Others
If you want a team of devoted followers, it’s essential that you show interest in those around you. Was a coworker’s kid sick yesterday? Ask how little Timmy is feeling the today. Did someone in your office get a new puppy? Ask how the training is going.
11. Use Names in Conversations
As Dale Carnegie notes, one’s own name is the sweetest sound in any language. What’s in a name? A lot, in fact. Our names are part of our identity, and using someone’s name in conversation makes them feel validated. Use an individual’s name when in dialogue with them and they’ll be sure to like you more.
12. Play Pretend
In many ways, life is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Imagine yourself as the person you wish to be. In other words, fake it ‘till you make it. If you want to be influential, begin by thinking of yourself that way.
13. Listen and Listen Well
When it comes to getting what you want from others, listening is everything. People need to feel like they’re being heard.
14. Use Confident Speech
Cut out the “umm”, “well”, and “like” words, which inadvertently make you sound less confident.
15. Expect the Best Out of People
This strategy is similar to setting high expectations for others, but is much more subtle. In an episode of This American Life, researchers conduct a study on how expectations affect others. In the study, they give subjects a task to complete with rats. Half of the subjects are told they are being given smart rats, while the other half are told they are being given stupid rats. In reality, the rats are all the same, so you would expect them all to perform the same, right?
Nope. The “smart” rats performed considerably better than the “dumb” rats. It turns out that the subjects were handling the rats differently as a result of their expectations (the smarter rats were held more gently, resulting in better performance). You may be unaware of how your inner thoughts and expectations affect those around you, but they certainly do. Expect what you want of others, and you may find your beliefs confirmed.
16. Mirroring
Birds of a feather stick together, but you can don a disguise if your plumage is off. Studies have shown that individuals act more favorably towards those who mimic them (not in the “Mom, Joe keeps copying me, make him stop!” way). Of course your mimicry can’t be ridiculously obvious — that could get very awkward very fast. However, subtle things like mannerisms, posture, and speech patterns can easily be copied and reflected. We tend to like our own ilk, and mimicking others shows you’re one of them.
17. Using The Scarcity Principle
Marketers often use scarcity to push products, but the concept can be used for opportunities as well. If you want to push someone towards a decision, try lines like “we won’t get a chance like this again,” or “this is really a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.”
18. Smile
Studies have shown smiling can make those around you feel happier, and can make you happier too!
19. Throw Down a Challenge
This is another gem from Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People. Carnegie noted that turning an objective into a challenge is often a great way to get people motivated. A little friendly competition can go a long way!
20. Put On a Show
Too much drama is a living nightmare, but the right dash of dramatics can do wonders. Drama can personalize facts. If you need to make a point and convince someone to get behind you, don’t be afraid to throw in some flair. This can mean upping the ante with charts and graphs, or even simply speaking with more emotion and stronger gestures.
21. Toss Out the Criticism
People don’t like being criticized or corrected. If you really want to get someone on your side, you’ll want to avoid criticism as much as possible. Of course sometimes correction is unavoidable, in which case the method of correction matters immensely. Seek to understand why someone is making an error, and then begin with a compliment or common ground. You might say, “I use to have a ton of trouble with Excel, and I see you’re making the same error I use to make a lot.” Be extremely tactful with your criticism!
22. Admit Mistakes
When you make a mistake, admit it quickly and clearly. Apologize for wrongdoings. Holding yourself accountable for errors shows that you’re a considerate, trustworthy person.
23. Opt For In-Person
Big conversations deserve to be dealt with face to face, or at least via phone. Taking the time to meet with someone in person shows respect and also lets you read the person better and get a sense for how they’re feeling.
24. Start With “Yes” Questions
Begin by asking questions you already know the answer will be “yes” to before building up to your true request — you’ll be more likely to get the “yes” you really want.
25. Consider Your Wardrobe
Different colors inspire different emotional responses, so it’s worth taking a minute to think about your outfit before asking a favor. Blue can make you appear trustworthy and secure, whereas red makes you come off powerful, and energetic, but possibly dangerous.
26. Posture is Power
Want to come off powerful? Posture is everything. Studies have shown that leaning back and spreading yourself out makes you feel powerful (and appear so to others).
27. Parroting
Similar to mirroring, parroting is when you paraphrase what someone has said to you back at them. An example conversation might be:
Joe: Jaime Lannister is my favorite Game of Thrones character.
You: Jaime Lannister is your favorite?
Joe: Yeah, he’s a really interesting character. And he’s a bad ass.
Also known as reflective listening, this practice makes the other individual feel that you are listening and engaging with them.
28. Nod Your Head
Studies have shown that people who physically nod while listening to an idea are more likely to be in agreement with it. Our physical body can often influence our cognitive thoughts (just as smiling can make you feel happier). The big advantage here? When someone sees you nodding in conversation, they will feel encouraged to follow suit. They’ll suddenly find themselves nodding, and therefore more inclined to go with your idea when you present it.
29. Ask Favors From Tired People
If you ask a tired person for a favor, they’ll be too tired to argue and will agree. They’ll put off whatever you asked them to do until the following day, and then they’ll feel obligated to keep their word.
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How to Get What You Want from People
This article was co-authored by Guy Reichard and by wikiHow staff writer, Janice Tieperman. Guy Reichard is an Executive Life Coach and the Founder of HeartRich Coaching & Training, a professional life coaching and inner leadership training provider based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. He works with people to create more meaning, purpose, well-being, and fulfillment in their lives. Guy has over 10 years of personal growth coaching and resilience training experience, helping clients enhance and transform their inner worlds, so they can be a more positive and powerful influence on those they love and lead. He is an Adler Certified Professional Coach (ACPC), and is accredited by the International Coach Federation. He earned a BA in Psychology from York University in 1997 and a Master of Business Administration (MBA) from York University in 2000.
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Whether you’re asking your parents for a little extra cash or discussing a raise with your boss, saying “please” isn’t always enough to seal the deal. Mind control definitely isn’t an option, so how are you supposed to get what you want from people without burning bridges in the process? We’ve got you covered. Keep reading for plenty of tips, tricks, and conversational hacks that can give you a great shot at getting exactly what you want.
Перевод песни Please, please, please, let me get what I want (Smiths, the)
Please, please, please, let me get what I want
Очень прошу тебя, дай мне получить то, что я хочу
Good time for a change
See, the luck I’ve had
Can make a good man turn bad
So please, please, please
Let me, let me, let me
Let me get what I want this time
Haven’t had a dream in a long time
See, the life I’ve had
Can make a good man bad
So for once in my life
Let me get what I want
Lord knows, it would be the first time
Lord knows, it would be the first time
Самое время для перемен.
Знаешь, судьба, которая была у меня,
способна испортить хорошего человека.
Так что, очень прошу тебя,
дай мне, дай мне, дай мне,
дай мне на этот раз получить то, что я хочу.
Я уже так давно ни о чём не мечтал.
Знаешь, образ жизни, который я вёл,
способен испортить хорошего человека.
Так что, хоть раз в жизни,
дай мне получить то, что я хочу,
Господь свидетель, это будет впервые,
Господь свидетель, это будет впервые.
What Women Want from Men: 6 REAL Things From A Woman!
In this article, I want to discuss with you what women want and share some tips on the top things women notice right away. This can be for people who are dating and also in relationships. This advice and insight comes from clients, myself and really just taking it back to the old Western times. Even though you may feel like this doesn’t exist anymore, that couldn’t be further from the truth! Chivalry still exists and women still love it!
What do women want in a man?
I’m so excited to share my thoughts on this and give you advice. If you need some help in the love department, I can guarantee this is what women look for when they’re dating a man, or even what keeps the relationship going, with a smile on her face.
And I want to just keep this pretty simple here, too. So many times I hear guys saying, “women are complicated, they want too much” and it’s really simple, guys. Women just want you to be you but confident with yourself. Loving yourself. Loving your life. Not feeling like you need a person to complete you or that you’re putting your emotions and sense of self-worth on her or the relationship. Basically, a woman wants the same things that you want because don’t you want a woman who loves herself and values herself and loves her life, too?
Here are 6 key things women look for in a man:
Read on below for an in-depth explanation for each of these qualities!
6 Things women want in a man!
#1 Women love a man that makes us feel safe.
This does not mean that you fight another man for us, or pick fights to show the girl you’re macho. Nothing like that at all! You don’t want to pick a fight with someone and show a woman that this is the way of you being macho. I can guarantee you the moment you do that, she’s dying to get away because that is exactly what you don’t want to do.
There are different ways you can show a woman that she can feel safe or secure around you. And it’s not about being physical. Let’s say you take her out to dinner, and you see she’s cold. Offer her your jacket. Or if you don’t have one, just ask the waiter if he can turn down the AC. This shows that you care about the way she feels. Make sure you hold her hand or even have her walk in front of you while you hold her waist in a crowded area. Ask her if she’s feeling okay and having a good time.
Also, walking her to her door, or even calling her an Uber and walking her to the Uber and asking her to text you when she gets home is a way that you set the boundaries for a woman to feel safe. Let’s say she forgets. She gets home, gives you about an hour, never texts you. This is when you text her. Maybe she fell asleep, but guess what? The moment she wakes up, she’s going to see a text from you, asking if she got home okay. This shows a woman you take control of her safety.
Also, a woman wants to know you will stand up for her and make sure she is treated well. Meaning, with friends, family, coworkers, everyone.
#2 Women love honesty and trust.
Trust. We love honesty, presence, and trust. So many men think that they have to play hard these days. I’m a true believer if a man and a woman really like each other, they do not play games because it interferes with trust, and sometimes honesty. You start building your foundation of trust by showing up to your dates on time and calling when you say you will.
Listen, women remember when you tell them, “I will call you tomorrow,” or saying, “I want to see you tomorrow.” So, if you say this, do it! I hear so many women dating men and they have a great date and the man says, “I would love to see you tomorrow.” She confirms politely, and the next day, he’s going to happy hour with his friends. This does not look good, guys! This is what happens in a woman’s mind when you do this: “He isn’t serious, and I don’t want to dedicate my time to him.” Men wonder why this happens, and it’s because a high-value woman will not want to set a date with a man that does not stick to his word.
Men, if you cannot stick to your word at the beginning of setting a date, then a woman is not going to take you seriously.
#3 Women love a man that can carry himself well.
Make your presence known. How you carry yourself matters. Walk into a room with her proudly. Introduce yourself to her friends with confidence, and maybe even tell a joke from time to time. A lot of men tend to think that presence is only about showing up, and yes it has a lot to do with showing up, but it’s about how you show up.
#4 Women want to feel important to you.
If you’re in a relationship, she wants to feel like she’s number one. You hear me, men? Women want to feel like they are number one. If all men could get this right, so many of us women would be happy. Tell her and show her you love her. You do this by involving her in things with your life, like work, your friends, family. Not only are you telling her, but you’re showing her too. She feels important when you’re including her in your life and you want her to be a part of it.
Open doors for her. Wait for her to sit down before she does. Offer to help her with bags in her hand, especially when she’s shopping. Men, a woman does not want to be carrying bags when she has a man that can be doing this for her. She does not want to be loading the luggage while you stand there and watch. These are just little ways of being a gentleman that shows her you’re there for her and wanting to help.
Compliment her and bring her flowers. Know her favorite color. Tell her what your favorite outfit on her is, and remember it. Know her favorite artists and buy her concert tickets. Remember what she likes. Make that masculine energy known.
#5 Women love a man that makes them feel heard.
Communication is key. Now, for my men in relationships, this is what I hear a lot: “I provide for her, and she has all the money to do all the activities she wants with her girlfriends, and she can shop whenever she wants. Why isn’t she happy?” This is where you get it wrong because it’s not about things. Women want to be heard. They want you to communicate with them. Don’t just come home, put on that TV, and just ask, “What’s for dinner?” Involve your partner in conversations when you get home. And yeah, I get it. Even if you have a hectic day and you don’t want to talk, because I know, we’ve all been there, this is when affection comes in. Just hug her, and kiss her, and tell her you love her. Tell her you had a hard day and you’re happy to see her. These are the things she is going to remember. I can guarantee you she will have a hot meal on that plate in no time. And if you’re lucky, maybe even a back rub.
#6 Women value maturity.
Most importantly, maturity. Maturity is sexy, guys. When speaking to so many women out there, the number one turn-off is a man that is immature. Call her and text her with conversations and not just one-line responses you can copy and paste to another girl. We want to see an effort. What I mean by this is don’t text her and say, “Hey, how are you doing?” She replies, and you never reply back. What is that? That’s not a sign of a loyal, respectful man. Get straight to the point, and do not sit there and text her all day. These types of virtual relationships are not healthy.
Now, there is a difference between dating someone for a while and texting a couple of times here and there. But I have seen so many people text all throughout the day. And what I mean by this is at least 20 text messages every 30 to 45 minutes throughout the day. Listen, a woman wants your attention, but a smart woman will see this as a red flag. So, don’t interrupt her day, especially if she’s on vacation with her girls or out with her girls for the day, whatever the case may be.
Men, don’t text a woman and ask her to meet you for a drink, and then say, “You’re buying,” then laugh afterward. I mean, the woman might offer to pay after your date, as she might want to escape as early as possible after going out with someone who isn’t maturely stable. But if you do want to come off as a mature man, don’t joke like this early on. Yes, I’ve seen this. It never works out well.
Also, please don’t tell her she’s beautiful just like your ex. Yes, I’ve seen this too. These are all clues of immaturity, and not somebody ready to settle down.
With maturity, a woman looks for a man who can provide. This isn’t always about money, men. We look for a man with ambition and determination. But let me be real with you, women want to know that you can handle their basic needs: dinner, travel, fun activities, and just simple, basic needs. Something that you can enjoy doing together. When getting in a relationship, many men I speak to date women sometimes that make more money than them, and that’s okay. But let me tell you something, men, this does not change the fact that women want to make sure she’s provided for. Do not make this a permanent habit. Depending on the situation, you might not always make more money than her. But you need to make sure you’re standing your ground and taking care of your part.
I see so many women helping their men out, and then they just become resentful. Listen to me, if there is anything you can do to stop this, you need to take control. Do not move into a woman’s house, use her car, and expect her to pay your phone bill. She will become resentful, and this is not the way a woman wants to be treated.
What women like: 5 things they notice right away!
#1 You have your own opinion.
Women do not want you to agree with them all the time. No one really wants that. Most people want to be able to have conversations and challenge their own thinking in order to be open to new ideas and the same holds true for women. We don’t want a doormat that we walk all over, we want someone that knows himself, knows what he stands for and knows how to use his voice. You’re allowed to speak your mind, guys! Just do it with respect and she’ll respect you right back.
#2 You know how to dress and you can dress well.
This isn’t just about making things look good on the outside. When a woman sees that you can dress well and you take the time to pay attention to details, so show up and be presentable, it shows a woman that you’re capable of paying attention to the details. That if you put care into how you present yourself, how you carry yourself, that same attention to detail and use of care and awareness is going to also be used in a relationship.
#3 You know how to communicate properly.
This also goes back to feeling safe with you, guys. A woman needs to know that if you get upset or frustrated, you’re not going to punch a wall or start becoming verbally abusive. That you are in control of your emotions and you’re not ruled by them, because that is unsafe. Women, at least high-value women, look for a man that when there is a disagreement, he is able to address it with compassion and communication, where you both look for a solution instead of just trying to be right.
#4 You have a purpose
This is a big one! Having passion in your life, having things that you love and being happy is huge for women. And also for you guys, too! It’s so important to understand that happiness comes from inside of you. If you’re not happy with yourself, with where you’re at in life and with what’s going on, a relationship is not going to make that better. In fact, a woman would walk away because if you’re not happy in your life and you’re putting too much pressure on her to fix you or make you happy, she’s going to become resentful and run in the opposite direction. This isn’t about owning a company or having billions of dollars, purpose means that you know what you offer in your career and you are happy with your life. It’s a huge attraction, this actually attracts people to you in general.
#5 You have manners
A woman will look at how you treat other people. Do you have a positive energy about you? Do you treat people with respect? Even when you think no one is looking. This shows her that she can be safe with you, emotionally safe with you. This one isn’t about whether or not you know which side of the plate the knife goes, this is about respect. Do you respect her and the people around you? This triggers her to picture how you’ll be with kids, with a relationship, with anything in life. So be sure to just treat everyone with respect, the same way that you would want to be treated.
Things a woman likes about a man
We like you to just be aware and be open. Women like when a guy knows himself has done the work on himself has things to teach her and knows who he is and what he brings to the table. Just think about what it is that you want, right? You want a woman who is emotionally available, knows who she is, is capable of being there for you and also confident, so just ask yourself, what am I really looking for in a relationship and in a partner and what do I need to grow in myself in order to get that and be at that level.
Maybe it’s learning how to take care of yourself more and go to the gym. Maybe it’s learning how to be honest and positive instead of being in a victim mentality and blaming the world instead of rising to the occasion. I talk about this a lot on my why women ghost blog that I would recommend if this has happened to you. Whatever it is, it’s great to take a hard look at yourself and then do the things you need to do in order to be the man you want to be that attracts the type of woman you want in your life.
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Sending you so much love and blessings.
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Thank you so much! Not at all. I actually have alot of videos about this. Thank you for reading my blog about what women want.
Best,
Apollonia
Hi Joe,
You’re welcome! Thank you for your comment and for reading my blog about what women want from men. Establishing good character and healthy habits are important. Thanks for that!
Best,
Apollonia
Hi Abe,
Can you come to one of my boot camps? I think we need to work on this together. This can change. https://www.apolloniaponti.co/bootcampshomepage
Best,
Apollonia
As usual, Apollonia, you hit the nail on the head in realistic terms that are direct, succinct and that any man can relate to. Regarding the frequency of texting or calling, I think moderation is the key, but the SUBSTANCE of said communications is what can most accurately advance the progress in a relationship.
I can also relate to your point on the importance of having and maintaining a sense of purpose. A woman can certainly enhance the good qualities in a man, but the notion that a woman can MAKE or BREAK a man’s life and happiness is an unfair expectation if I do not have my own means of creating opportunities for happiness and fulfillment within myself. I am seeing for myself that self-respect is key here – and I don’t mean in a narcissistic manner, rather, learning to realize all that I have to offer and infusing that self-love into the relationship. I learned a lot about that in your blog on changes to make in promoting self-care.
Good for you, Dave. The fact is, men pursue women they choose to pursue, but women choose from among the men who pursue them. Other guys [can] have what it takes to be selected. I don’t – and whatever authentic quality other men have that attracts women at a sexual level is inherent to them – I don’t have it. Thanks for trying to help – there’s nothing ‘wrong’ with me – it’s just that some of us are just not supposed to be sexually visible – so we cannot be.
As a final point, I would ask you why don’t women ever escalate sexually with men and instead insist on men doing all the risk-taking?? After all, it’s 2020, not Victorian England. The approach-anxiety that I have experienced has been overwhelming and if women want to be treated as equal partners with men then they should shoulder an equal amount of the burden of establishing intimacy. Thank you
Yes, there are plenty of coaches for women. Actually more for women than men. 🙂
Dude, you at least became awake about ‘women want’ bs, at first I thought you are mad. Now you need to take the red pill to further your journey. Read on ‘The Manipulated Man’ by Esther Viller, a woman and then read ‘The Rational Male’ by Rollo Tommasi for betterment in your life. And also subscribe to some red pill, mgtow channels on youtube and women hypergamy channels. After all of these your life will take a different turn for the better.
She only promotes simp behavior of men that’s why she approved your comments and removed mine.
In summation, you offer invaluable information in understand women as it relates to dating, courtships, and otherwise. Moreover, your insights are delivered very clearly, concisely, and with good energy! Your information in this subject matter has been immensely helpful to me. Thank You and keep doing this; this is your calling!
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Текст песни / Караоке: Thats what i want
[Intro]
One, two, three, four
[Verse 1]
Need a boy who can cuddle with me all night
Keep me warm, love me long, be my sunlight
Tell me lies, we can argue, we can fight
Yeah, we did it before, but we’ll do it tonight
That afro black boy with the gold teeth
He dark skin, lookin’ at me like he know me
I wonder if he got the G or the B
Let me find out and see, he comin’ over to me, yeah
[Pre-Chorus]
These days, I’m way too lonely
I’m missin’ out, I know
These days, I’m way too alone
And I’m known for givin’ love away, but
[Chorus]
I want (I), someonе to love me
I need (I), someonе who needs me
‘Cause it don’t feel right when it’s late at night
And it’s just me in my dreams
So I want (I), someone to love
That’s what I fuckin’ want
[Verse 2]
Look, you know it’s harder to find in these times
But I got nothin’ but love on my mind (My mind)
I need a baby while I’m in my prime
Need an adversary to my down and weary
Like, tell me that’s life when I’m stressin’ at night
Be like, «You’ll be okay» and, «Everything is alright,» uh
Love me or nothin’ ’cause I’m not wanting anything
But your loving, your body, and a little bit of your brain
[Pre-Chorus]
These days, I’m way too lonely
I’m missin’ out, I know
These days, I’m way too alone
And I’m known for givin’ love away, but
[Chorus]
I want (I), someone to love me
I need (I), someone who needs me
‘Cause it don’t feel right when it’s late at night
And it’s just me in my dreams
So I want (I), someone to love
That’s what I fuckin’ want
[Bridge]
I want (I), someone to love me
I need (I), someone who needs me
[Chorus]
‘Cause it don’t feel right when it’s late at night
And it’s just me in my dreams
So I want (I), someone to love
That’s what I fuckin’ want
Перевод песни: Это то, что я хочу
[Итнро]
Раз, два, три, четыре
[Куплет 1]
Мне нужен парень, который будет обниматься со мной всю ночь
Согревай меня, долго люби, будь моим солнечным лучом
Солги мне, мы можем спорить, мы можем бороться
Да, мы делали это раньше, но мы сделаем это вечером сегодня
Этот афро-чёрный парень с золотыми зубами
Он темнокожий, смотрит на меня, будто бы меня знает
Любопытно, G он или B
Позволь узнать и посмотреть, он подходит ко мне, да
[Предприпев]
В эти дни я слишком одинок
Я скучаю, я знаю
В эти дни я слишком одинок
И все знают, что я дарю любовь, но
[Куплет 2]
Послушай, ты же знаешь, что в наше время это трудно найти
Но у меня на уме нет ничего, кроме любви (На уме)
Мне нужен ребёнок, пока я в расцвете сил
Нужен противник, чтобы требовать отношений любви-ненависти
Мол, скажи мне, что есть жизнь, когда я нервничаю по ночам
Скажи: «Всё будет хорошо» или «Всё в порядке», у
Люби меня или не люби, ведь другого я не желаю
Только твою любовь, твоё тело и немного твоего мозга
[Предприпев]
В эти дни я слишком одинок
Я скучаю, я знаю
В эти дни я слишком одинок
И все знают, что я дарю любовь, но
Я хочу, чтобы кто-то меня любил
Мне нужен кто-то, кто нуждается во мне