What makes a happy family
What makes a happy family
Last Updated: Friday May 09 2008 10:40 GMTWhat do you think makes a happy family?Is it just about being able to have a laugh together? Or does being able to talk about your problems matter just as much as having fun? Maybe you think it’s up to the parents or adults to make sure a family’s happy? Unfortunately this topic is now closed but there are Comments pages on other subjects on the main Chat index. Olivia, 9, Durham «A happy family is where the mum and dad are together, and the sisters and brothers feel safe and can talk together.» Rebecca, 11, London «You need to have a loving and caring family that will support you and trust you. Sometimes you need both your parents.» Keeley, 13, Chester «The best thing to connect with your family is love. Help each other and don’t love one person more than the other.» Leanne, 12, Saltash «Being a happy family is about being able to look ahead, to be able to find a good thing about every bad thing that comes up.» «I think a happy family is a family who love each other. They might have their rows, but they will always make up.» «I think you need to love and trust each other, and if you are always yelling at each other then maybe you need to talk.» Amy, 12, Cheylesmore «Just listen to each other and you will get along.» Chloe, 10, Bishop «Families need to be supportive and loving, need to place boundaries but also know when children need freedom. Also, they need to understand that sometimes the child doesn’t want to be with family but with friends and parents should let them.» Sarah, 11, Romsey «I think what makes a family happy is having quality family time and adventures together to make the family have fun. You also need to learn to get on with each other.» Norvie, 9, Orpington «I think u need love and u need 2 have trust.» «Everyone moans about their family but they would not be able to live without them as everyone means so much to us, love is all anyone needs to be happy.» Daisy, 11, Dudley «You must enjoy the days out not for what you do but who you do it with. What makes a happy family is love and trust.» Rosalind, 12, Liverpool «Well, there isn’t just one thing that makes a family happy. one family could enjoy days out together, others could enjoy reading together and some could just get along!» Laura, 13, Redruth «I think you need love and trust 2 make a happy family!» Poppy, 8, Whiteparish «I think you need brothers and sisters that love you and a mum and dad who will always care and love you no matter what the situation!» Chloe, 11, Burton «I think a good parent is someone that can talk to you and keep small secrets. And that they can sort out bullying problems and helps you with homework.» «Good parents are the ones who are there when you need them.» Mohammed, 13, Bradford «Walks in the countryside together are always exciting and playing Frisbee or other games in the park is lovely. « Katie, 13, Birmingham «I think going out on walks and doing activities and playing games at home makes a happy family. You have to talk because if no one in the family talks to each other then you don’t know whether they’re happy or not!» Demii, 13, Doncaster Hannah, 7, Edinburgh «I love my family because they’re not like people who are into fashion and pop music, they just like the simple things in life. I love them especially as my mum gives me special cuddles at night, my Dad’s extra funny and my little sister Mia can be really cheeky!» «I think the best thing to connect families is trust and friendship. As long as you are happy around your family it will stay strong and your parents and siblings can feel like friends to you.» Matthew, 13, Didcot Heather, 13, Glasgow «I think what makes a happy family is to keep things fair and to always care about each other, and love each other. Families should always listen and help each other out. They should also have things together and share things. They should not fight but ask gently for something.» Simran, 9, Ilford «I think being able to talk to each other about anything and trusting each other. Also caring and sharing.» Cecily, 11, Harrow «I think that being together as a group and always looking after each other.» Mimi, 10, Warminster «Seeing everyone else happy. no arguments or fights and proper food and water.» «A happy family is a family who spend time together, love and understand each other and get on well together. It’s no good if you and your family don’t get on. If this is the case then you must try and bond, getting to love each other and understand each other.» Darianne, 11, Gravesend «I think our dog makes us happy as we all love her to bits. Our separate friends make each of us happy as well. Most of the time, I (and I think the rest of my family) enjoy seeing extended family and most of the time we don’t get on too badly together either! Each of us has our own separate interests like reading, writing, animals, and art.» Sarah, 11, Romsey «I think being kind to each other and helping out a lot makes a happy family.» Chloe, 13, Manchester «I think being nice to each other makes a happy family.» Rachel, 6, Sussex «Love and everyone sticking together and getting along. I mean me and my sisters have differences but I still love them a lot, and my baby brother Tommy.» Carley, 12, Luton «I think a good family is made up of caring, funny but also sometimes serious people.» Maleeha, 11, London «What makes a good family is not money. It is each other and it is mostly hope and love. When you have love you can do anything. « Bonny, 12, Nottingham «Everyone getting on together. And be able to spend time together!» Kate, 12, Arbroath «You need love and care in every family. You should try to talk and sort problems out if you have any.» Kizz, 12, Leicester Ellis, 7, Wokingham I think a good family is a family who can sit down and have heart to hearts, but also who can always have a whale of a time.» Susan, 10, Liverpool «To have a happy family you need to talk to each other and love each other and spend time with the family. You need to ask if there is anything wrong and understand them if there is.» Asha, 9, Lincolnshire «I think that having fun, not being involved when your parents argue and also being able to talk about your problems makes a happy family because it’s horrible listening to your parents argue and it’s good to have fun!» Natasha, 10, Wiltshire «I think a happy family is a family that knows each other well. Some families are so separate from each other. Parents splitting up and family members dieing can make a family even more separate. I think families doing things together like eating round a table or siblings sharing rooms really makes a difference!» Imogen, 12, Solihull «I think it is love and respect and just noticing them, just having family time.» Autumn, 12, Cheltenham «A good family is when all the people get on with each other every day.» Tamsyn, 7, Cornwall «Having a happy family is about being close to each other and spending time together.» Coral, 13, Gateshead «It’s down to the people in the family. I think families should make you feel safe and loved, and also be very supportive. Quality time is also good so that you can get to know each other better, and being able to talk about your problems is essential. You can choose your friends, but not your family so you need to appreciate them, whether your a parent child, brother or sister.» Lizzie, 11, Solihull «Having freedom. And of course spending quality time together!» Merriam, 11, Leicester «To have a happy family you should all love each other and have lots of quality time together.» Rosie, 11, Bristol «Having everyone together every week at least once for a happy family tea!» Lizzie, 7, Altrincham «It’s quality and not quantity when it comes to families, and parents who support you, no matter what you do.» «I think what makes a family happy is that you don’t lie to one another and you always tell the truth and have fun and share emotions.» Arielle, 12, Feltham «My family always stick together and I think that’s a major factor of having a happy family. My family are going through rough times at the moment but we make sure we know how much we love each-other and that’s what makes our family happy.» «I think to make a happy family everyone has to be nice to each other and cooperate well.» Helena, 11, London «I think a happy family is one that does things with each other. Like going on family fun days, sitting down and talking to each other. But above all having fun!!» Ellie, 11, Uckfield «I think that a family could be so rich that they could buy the world but if no-one cares or loves each other it wouldn’t be a happy family!» Vabetha, 11, Wembley «My mum asks me every night «Are you happy?», so if I’m not we talk about it. So I think to communicate can make you happy. Also to have play fights with foamy bubbles!» Georgina, 11, Henley-on-Thames «A happy family is a comfort zone with lots of hugs and support.» «I think that spending lots of time with your family makes you happy.» Kelsey, 10, Poole «I think the only thing that can make a family happy is the people in it. A family could be the richest in the world with all the best stuff but if the members did not get along it would be an unhappy family.» «I think a happy family is when the kids can be treated like adults, and the adults can be treated like kids! (Not all of the time though!)» Becky, 13, The Midlands «I think a happy family is where the whole family spends time together, either days out or maybe just time talking.» Kennedy, 10, Bradford «I think my family is happy because we are always there for each other. Both my parents are teachers so they always know if something is wrong. Sometimes it turns out we don’t have enough money to buy everything, but we’re still a happy family.» Rhiannon, 10, Devon «I think that no family is perfect, but being able to talk to your parents and having a laugh is really important!» Caitlin, 10, Northern Ireland «I think that a strong bond makes a good family.» «A sense of humour is vital! We may have arguments but we can see the funny side afterwards.» Eris, 13, Suffolk «You have to love each other. Arguing is normal but not constantly. Love is the most important thing» Orlagh, 13, Derry City «I think a happy family is a family that appreciates each other and spend time together.» Ana, 13, Teddington «I think what makes a happy family is being able to tell each other how you are feeling without having a fight and having fun together.» Molly, 12, Pembrokeshire «I think what makes a happy family is love, support and being there for each other.» Chloe, 10, Hampshire «I think a happy family is a family where the parents and children talk to each other and where you can trust each other!» Jessy, 12, London «I think everyone should try and be nice to each other and everyone might be happier.» Shelby, 12, Manchester «I think a happy family is one where you’re able to talk about your worries and have fun together, also when there are family days out.» Emily, 10, Ireland «I think what makes a happy family is love, care and quality time all together» Kelly, 11, Leicester «I think a happy family comes from a family who can talk together, speak about anything, including worries.» What makes a happy familyA family can be two or more people who share goals and values, have long-term commitments to one another, and usually live in the same house. Families range from all sorts of races, forms and sizes. Families differ in various ways but each one has its own definition of a happy home and family. So, what makes a happy family? There are many important factors that make a happy family. What Contributes To A Happy Family?Virtually everyone wants to have a happy family. Despite this, many families struggle with happiness, satisfaction, and healthy lifestyles. A variety of factors contribute to the happiness (or lack thereof) of a family. Financial stability, mental health, etc. each impact the quality of life for families and how they are treated and viewed by the world. The importance of a happy family increases exponentially if children are involved. Contrary to what is often presented on television and in other forms of media, the creation of a happy family requires hard work, wisdom, and sometimes sacrifice. Good judgment is also an important factor. However, the first step to having a happy family is knowing what contributes to a happy family. Financial Stability It has been said that «money isn’t everything». Certainly, financial stability can be an important factor to a happy family. Although there are other things that can contribute to familial contentment, financial instability can be a stressor to individuals and families. According to Imom, a lack of financial stability is tied to stress, obesity, depression, stroke, and heart disease. An American Psychological Association survey confirms that 73% of individuals regard money as a cause of stress in their lives. When seeking to create a happy family, money matters as does financial stability. The ability to keep a roof over the family’s head, pay bills, put food on the table, and partake in other activities (such as dining out, going to the movies, etc.) requires money and financial security. Believe it or not, financial stability can also contribute to the quality of marriages. Although there are a plethora of factors which contribute to a happy marriage, financial issues are notorious for placing a strain on (and in some cases, ending) marriages. The end of a marriage can be very traumatic and upsetting, especially if children are involved. Moreover, anyone who chooses to have children is responsible for ensuring that they grow up in a safe, secure, and appropriate environment. This cannot be done without financial stability and the ability to cover living expenses. Children who grow up in financially secure homes are likelier to be financially secure as adults. Many people would be surprised to learn just how much kids pick up on what is around them. For better or worse, children emulate what they are most frequently exposed to. For the sake of the children’s development and future success, parents are tasked with the responsibility of maintaining a healthy, happy family. Achieving financial stability is paramount to the task above. Mental Health And Wellness Similarly to financial stability, mental health and wellness are another bedrock and fundamental aspect of a happy family. As explained by Mental Health, mental health and wellness impact the ability to engage in productive work, deal with stress and difficulties, and make wise choices. Interactions with others and personal behavior are other things which are impacted by the quality of an individual’s mental health and wellness. A family who enjoys mental health and wellness will be able to engage in positive lifestyle choices. Eating and sleeping, engaging in productive activities, instilling honorable values in children, etc. can best be done when a family is in a mentally well state. Emotional health also shares close ties to mental health and matters as families strive to achieve happiness. A person’s emotional well-being (or lack thereof) affects how they deal with others around them. It determines how they treat their significant other and children. Emotional health also determines the habits that children observe and imitate. Children who witness their parents handle anger in a productive and non-violent manner are likely to follow suit as they learn, grow, and eventually venture into the world. Likewise, children who see their parents yell, throw objects, or engage in violence during fits of anger are more likely to viewthis as acceptable behavior to emulate. Eating Dinner Together Technology has become a prevalent force in modern society. It seems as though virtually everyone is checking their MacBook, smartphone, and iPad for something. While technology does come with its own merits and benefits, knowing when to put devices down is essential. According to TIME, families who eat dinner with one another are setting themselves up for countless benefits, especially if children are part of the family. Studies have shown that young people who eat dinner with their family members are less likely to engage in risky behaviors. Moreover, families who eat together are likelier to have children who are well-mannered, healthy, intellectually advanced, and confident. Dining together also impacts academic performance and conduct. Sometimes, the little things turn out to make a big difference. Morality and Values Morality and values are critical, determining factors in the happiness, or lack thereof, of a family. Morality and values determine whether or not significant others are honest and faithful to one another. They determine how members of the family conduct themselves in work and life. When children are involved, the value and behavior they witness can determine the morality that is internalized. One of the most important values for parents to teach to their children is integrity. Young people should know that honesty matters. Unfortunately, the importance of integrity is not always promoted in society. Society often promotes the opposite of integrity. Far too often, cheating, stealing, and engaging in other negative behaviors are promoted in music, movies, television shows, and other forms of media. For this reason, parents must go the extra mile as they strive to instill values within their children. Similarly to integrity, compassion, respect, gratitude, and personal responsibility are morals to be taught to children. Teaching these values to children during their formative years will truly come in handy as they grow into teenagers. There are countless negative influences and temptations out there for teens. Drugs, alcohol, and skipping school are only the tip of the iceberg. Young people who have been instilled with values are more likely to be able to resist adverse influences and make decisions that will attract both short-term and long-term benefits. Positive Influences Parents are not the only influences in the lives of their children. However, this does not mean that parents cannot have any say over who spends time around their children. The quality of influences which young people have exposure to have more of an impact than many individuals realize. Positive, external influences often contribute to the healthy growth and success of children while negative; external influences tend to engender the opposite outcome. However, even the most well-intentioned parents should proceed with caution regarding controlling certain influences in the lives of their children. Even though most parents have nothing but the best interests at heart, sometimes banning certain things or individuals from children’s lives can have the opposite impact, explains Real Simple. Sometimes, the lure of the forbidden can become a factor, especially for teenagers. With that said, there are certain situations where laying down the law and being stern is appropriate. Ultimately, parents are tasked with the job of making the call depending on the nature of the situation and the quality of the influence. Looking Into Counseling or Therapy At one point or another, each family will face their unique challenges and struggles. Despite the inevitability of this reality, it does not have to engender the downfall of a family. The process of overcoming challenges has been known to unite families and strengthen their bond. The complications and uncertainty associated with this process can often be fixed by seeking professional help, particularly counseling or therapy. Sadly, seeking and accepting professional help is something which many individuals still struggle with. Some people have been conditioned to believe that they should handle everything by themselves. However, no matter how strong or self-assured someone may be, everyone needs assistance sometimes. There is no shame in asking for help and benefiting from all that counseling and therapy can offer. Here at BetterHelp, we pride ourselves on providing guidance and assistance to anyone who reached out to us. Life can be difficult sometimes, especially when attempting to maintain a healthy and happy family. Thankfully, the counselors and therapists who work with us are passionate about helping people live their best lives and experience true happiness. Each family will have to decide whether or not counseling or therapy would benefit them. However, BetterHelp will always be available as an option and resource for all. You and your family can contact us at any time by clicking here. 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As a great Russian writer Leo Tolstoy said: “All families are happy in the same way, and all unhappy families are unhappy in their own way.” What do you know about extended families? Are these families big or small? 3.Этап вызова.Совершенствование коммуникативных умений. What do you know?What do you want to know? kinds of families What kind of family is the happiest one? What can make a family happy? positive and negative qualities of a person Which qualities do people have in a happy/unhappy family? 4.Этап осмыслени я.Получение новой информации. To answer the questions you should look through the cards.» (просматриваем карточки еще раз и записываем в третий столбик таблицы). to be closer to each other What do teenagers think about their relationship with the parents? Write down the answers into your copybooks. (прослушивают текст, записывают ответы в тетради, озвучивают свои ответы) 1. Are families in Africa extended? 2. Who is the ruler in the family? 3. What traditions do they have? respect, help ignore, hate. Have you changed your opinion about your family? We’ll think it over once more.At home write down cinquan of the word “parents”. The plan is on the blackboard. Learn the words and write definitions on the cards. Thank you. See you next lesson. 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