When is that letter

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When is that letter

When in front of a vowel, silent, when at the end, «ng»

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How are letters read in English table

Consider letter combinations in English in the key of the rules of reading and pronunciation with the ability to listen to each letter combination in the examples. For brevity, the basic rules for reading letter combinations are given in the tables.

Reading vowel combinations

The table below shows the basic (common) set of vowel combinations (see table 1), Russian and English transcriptions with examples of words and notes.

oi, oi[ɔi] (OH)coin [kɔin], employ [im’plɔi]ou[au]out [aut]oa[əu] (EU)coat [kəut]

Reading letter combinations with consonants

Below (in table 2) are the main consonant combinations.

Table 2. Letter combinations in English. Reading consonant combinations Letter (combination of letters) Transcription When used Examples (listen)

b	[B]	in all cases	begin [bi’gin]
mb	[m]	b is not read at the end of a word after the letter m	climb [climb]
c	[s]	before vowels e, i, y	city [‘siti], nice [nais], cycle [saikl]
[k]	in all other cases	cap [kaep]
k	[k]	in all cases	kite
ck	[k]	in all cases	black [blaek]
kn	[n]	at the beginning of a word	know [nəʊ]
g	[ʤ]	before vowels e, i, y	gentleman
[g]	in all other cases	gate [geit] Exceptions: give [giv], get [get]
j	[ʤ]	in all cases	jacket [ˈʤækɪt]
z	[z]	in all cases	zoo [zuː]
h	[H]	in all cases	happy [ˈhæpɪ]
sh	[ʃ]	in all cases	she [ʃiː]
tch	[ʧ]	in all cases	catch [[kæʧ]
ch	[ʃ]	in words of French origin	champagne [ʃæmˈpeɪn]
[k]	in words of Greek origin	school [skuːl], chemistry [ˈkemɪstrɪ]
[ʧ]	in all other cases	chalk [ʧɔːk]
th	[θ]	at the beginning and end of significant words	think [θɪŋk]
[ð]	at the beginning of service words (pronouns, articles)	the [ðiː]
in significant words between vowels	clothes [kləʊz]
x	[ks]	before a consonant and at the end of words	text [text]
[gz]	before the stressed vowel	exam [ɪgˈzaæm]
ph	[f]	photo [ˈfəʊtəʊ]

English letters and their transcription. Plus common combinations of English letters. Understandable and accessible

Greetings, my dear readers.

Today we continue to talk about how to learn to read correctly, so the topic of today’s article is the transcription of English letters.

We have already met you with the concept transcriptions and dealt with the pronunciation of sounds in English. Today we will figure out exactly how they are pronounced in various combinations.

I have a table for you to understand. It contains the letters of the English alphabet with transcription, Russian analogue letters and my notes so that you can immediately put the correct pronunciation. I also added examples of words with the studied sounds and their translation.

What else can be found on the blog:

Features of English transcription:

The letters of the English alphabet and their transcription in Russian and English:

English letter	Transcription	Russian analogue
Aa	[eɪ]	Hey
Bb	[biː]	Would be
Cc	[siː]	Si
Dd	[diː]	Di
Ee	[iː]	И
Ff	[ɛf]	Eph
Gg	[dʒiː]	Gee
Hh	[eɪtʃ]	H
Ii	[aɪ]	Ай
Jj	[dʒeɪ]	Jay
Kk	[keɪ]	Kay
Ll	[ɛl]	E
Mm	[ɛm]	Em
Nn	[ɛn]	En
Oo	[əʊ]	OU
Pp	[pi]	Pi
Qq	[kjuː]	Кью
Rr	[ɑː] or [ɑɹ]	A or Ap
Ss	[ɛs]	Es
Tt	[tiː]	You
Uu	[juː]	Ю
Vv	[viː]	In and
Ww	[ˈDʌb (ə) l juː]	Double
Xx	[ɛks]	The ex
Yy	[waɪ]	Wye
Zz	[zɛd], [ziː]	Zed, zee

But do you know what is most interesting about English?

If different letters are combined, they are pronounced differently!

So I have prepared for you

Examples of English letter combinations in Russian and English:

I know this table looks huge now. You probably think that remembering all this is unrealistic. I’ll tell you this: at a certain moment, when you have enough reading practice, you will not even pay attention to these combinations. Your brain will learn to quickly remember how these letters sound. Moreover, even when you come across a completely unfamiliar word, you will be able to read it correctly. The only question is the amount of practice on your part.

How to memorize letter combinations?

Learn as you progress!

That’s all, my dears. I hope you found it helpful and clear.

Transcription and reading rules in English

Transcription Is a recording of the sound of a letter or word in the form of a sequence of special phonetic symbols.

The transcription may not be interesting to everyone, but it is undoubtedly useful. Knowing the transcription, you will correctly read the unfamiliar word without assistance. In the classroom, you yourself can read the transcription of a word (for example, from the blackboard) without asking others, thereby facilitating the process of assimilating lexical material, etc.

At first, there will be errors in the correct reading, tk. there are always some subtleties in pronunciation. But this is just a matter of practice. A little later, if necessary, you can transcribe the words yourself.

Transcription is directly related to reading rules. In English, not everything that is seen (letter combinations) is read (as in Russian and Spanish, for example).

When textbooks (mostly Russian) tell about the rules of reading, much attention is paid to the type of syllable. Usually about five of these types are described. But such a detailed theoretical presentation of the rules of reading does not greatly facilitate the fate of a beginner, and may even mislead him. It must be remembered that a good knowledge of the rules of reading is a great merit of practice, not theory.

Your attention will be presented the basic rules for reading individual letters and letter combinations. «Behind the scenes» will remain some phonetic moments that are difficult to convey in writing.

A little patience! Both transcription and reading rules are easy to learn in a short time. Then you will be surprised: «How easy it has become to read and write!»

However, do not forget that, despite its widespread distribution, the English language does not cease to be a LANGUAGE, full of exceptions, stylistic and other delights. And at any stage of language learning, and especially at the initial stage, often look into the dictionary.

Notes:

In many school textbooks and in some Russian dictionaries, this sound is designated as [o]. But, in modern English dictionaries, this sound is usually denoted as shown in the table.

Diphthong Is a complex sound with two sounds. In most cases, a diphthong can be «split» into two sounds, but not in writing.

Since in many cases one of the constituent sounds of the diphthong, if used separately, will have a different designation. For example diphthong [au]: there is no transcriptional mark like [a] separately.

Therefore, most diphthongs are indicated not by a set of different transcription symbols, but by their own sign.

In many school textbooks and in some Russian dictionaries, this sound is designated as [ou], which is more descriptive. But, in modern English dictionaries, this sound is usually denoted as shown in the table.

This sign often denotes unstressed vowel sounds in transcription, regardless of the letters (combinations) that this sound give.

English words have several types of syllables. However, to understand the whole system, it is necessary to remember and distinguish between the following two types: open and closed.

Stress in transcription and words is indicated by a vertical bar before the stressed syllable.

Single vowel sounds

Note: 1. very rarely a + r gives the sound [o:] warm [wo: m]; 3. Rarely: salmon [sæmən]

[u] [u:]the length of this sound in most cases varies for historical reasons rather than spelling. That is, for each word, it is determined individually. This difference in longitude does not carry a huge meaningful load, as in other sounds. And in oral speech it does not need to be specially emphasized. This sound occurs in the following cases:

Table and rules for the pronunciation of consonants and vowels of English letters

By Natalia Mar 6, 2019

The sounds that English letters represent are 44 English phonemes, which are divided into two categories: consonants and vowels. Since sounds cannot be recorded, graphemes (letters or combinations of letters) are used to convey sounds in writing.

English alphabet

There are 26 letters in English. The standard English alphabet starts with a and ends with z.

When classifying alphabetic characters, the following are distinguished:

Learning the English alphabet requires knowledge of both the symbol representing each letter and the phonetic sounds associated with that letter. Learning English phonetics is difficult. Only a small number of letters have no exceptions in the basic sound.

In most cases, each letter has multiple phonemes. The letter B sometimes sounds like bat (bat) or does not sound, for example, in the words crumb (kram), dumb (dam). The letter C sounds like «k» for cat (cat) or «c» for ceiling (si: ling), or «pm» for church (tch: pm). And the list of exceptions is endless.

Vowel sounds

Vowels represent the main category of phonemes in English speech. There are 20 vowel sounds in spoken English. This discrepancy (in relation to alphabetic characters) underlies the difficulty of writing in English.

Short	Long	Diphthongs
a [æ]	A (ā) [eı]	[eɪ]
e [ɛ]	E (ē) [i:]	[aɪ]
i [ɪ]	I (ī) [aı]	[ɔɪ]
o [ɒ]	O (ō) [ou]	[ɪə]
u [ʌ]	U (ū) [ju:]	[eə]
[ʊə]
[əʊ]
[aʊ]

Consonant Sounds

Deaf	Voiced	Others
p	b	c
t	d	h
k	g	j
f	v	l
s	z	m
n
q
r
w
x
y

Transcription and stress

Phonetic transcriptions tell about the pronunciation of words. In English dictionaries, this is a necessary condition, since the spelling does not say how the word is pronounced.

Vowels	Consonants
ʌ	b
ɑ:	d
æ	f
e	g
ə	h
ɜ: ʳ	j
ɪ	k
i:	l
ɒ	m
ɔ:	n
ʊ	ŋ
u:	p
aɪ	r
aʊ	s
eɪ	ʃ
oʊ	t
ɔɪ	tʃ
eəʳ	θ
ɪəʳ	ð
ʊəʳ	v
w
z
ʒ
dʒ

The rules do not fully cover aspects of stress in English words. The language is characterized by the presence of exceptions, and the English themselves are mistaken, especially in polysyllabic words.

But, obviously, some basic rules still apply:

Prefixes in two-syllable words are not stressed, except in some nouns or adjectives. Two-syllable nouns starting with a prefix are studied individually.

English consonants

There are fewer consonants in the English alphabet than consonants. Therefore, to expand the alphabet, digraphs are used like «Ch», «sh», «th» and «zh», and some letters and digraphs represent more than just one consonant. For example, the sound written “th” in this is transcribed as / ð /, and “th” in thin is / θ /.

English consonants are classified according to their combination of functions:

In addition, there is a function «Dull alveolar stop», / t / when the airflow mechanism is down.

According to the method of formation, consonants are divided into:

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Features of English consonants

A consonant combination is a set of two or three consonant letters that, when pronounced, retain the original sound. Such sets occur either at the beginning or at the end of a word. For example, the word brave, where both «b» and «r» are pronounced, is an initial combination. In the word bank «-nk» is the final combination.

Classification:

Digraphs

Examples of digraphs:

Ch-	— ch
Kn-	— ck
Ph-	-sh
Sh-	-ss
Th-	-th
wh-	-tch
Wr-

Features of digraphs:

English reading rules for beginners

›Learning the language› Translation and reading ›Rules for reading English for beginners: a table of letters and diphthongs with transcription and pronunciation

Having studied the Russian alphabet, we can easily read any texts. But for correct reading in English, you will have to make more effort, because there are many discrepancies between spelling and pronunciation of words.

If you decide to master this language on your own and cannot understand how to read words in English correctly, then this material is exactly what you need. Today we will analyze the nuances of the pronunciation of English letters and letter combinations, and find out how easy it is to learn to read English from scratch.

And it will help to study the rules of reading English for beginners with a table in which all the letters and their sound are presented.

What are open and closed syllables?

An open syllable is a syllable that ends in a vowel sound. As a rule, it occurs in the following cases:

* Ultimate e in most cases, it is considered «dumb», that is, it is not pronounced, but appears at the base of the word precisely for the formation of an open syllable.

In open syllables, the vowel is always pronounced smoothly and stretched out. Accordingly, closed syllables are all those syllables in which the vowel sound is closed by a consonant and therefore sounds short and abrupt: cut [cat].

In addition, special reading rules in English are characteristic of syllables in which the vowel is closed by the letter r. The fact is that in the British version of the pronunciation of such syllables, the letter r is often completely omitted, i.e. not pronounced. Therefore, there are two options for reading such letter combinations:

The rule of open and closed syllables is the basic rule of reading in English, although there are many exceptions to it. But it is too early to learn exceptions without knowing the main rules. Therefore, now we will consider the options for the sound of all letters and letter combinations.

Even if you started learning English and reading it from scratch, you probably already know the spelling and sound of all the letters of the English alphabet. But, as we already learned from the previous section, when reading, the pronunciation of letters depends on the type of syllable or letter combination.

Therefore, in the tables below, you can find several variants of the sound of the same letter at once. But do not be alarmed, for each case there will be an accessible explanation.

So, let’s continue to study English for beginners and learn the rules of reading in English.

Consonants

Let’s start with the easiest one: with a table of consonants, the pronunciation of which is similar to the Russian sound.

* English d and t are pronounced more aspirated than their Russian counterparts.

** w is pronounced with lips extended into a tube, as a result, a cross between the Russian sounds в and у is obtained.

Now let’s deal with more complex letters.

Letter	Transcription	Pronunciation and explanations
C	[s]	c (before vowels i, e, y)
[k]	to (in other cases)
G	[dʒ]	j (before vowels i, e, y)
[g]	r (in other cases)
H	[H]	Very weakly pronounced Russian X (almost just a strong exhalation)
Q	[kW]	square
X	[ks]	ks (before a consonant or at the end of a word)
[gz]	z (between two vowels)
[z]	z (at the beginning of a word before a vowel)

And also we will study the letter combinations of consonants in English.

Combination	Transcription	Pronunciation
ck	[k]	к
ch	[tʃ]	ч
tch
ng	[ŋ]	nasal n
ph	[f]	ф
sh	[ʃ]	ш
th	[θ] [ð]	1) the sound is average between s and f (tongue between the teeth) 2) the sound is average between z and v (tongue between the teeth)
wr	[r]	р
wh	[w] [h]	y / in (just before o)
qu	[qw]	square

Vowels

It is much more difficult to cope with reading English vowels, but the familiar rules of open and closed syllables will help us to understand it. We take them into service and learn how to read English vowels correctly.

Closed syllable
Letter	Transcription	Pronunciation	Examples
A	[æ]	э	bat, track, sad
E	[e]	э	pet, red, check
I	[ɪ]	и	pit, fill, tin, system, myth, lynx
Y
O	[ɒ]	о	spot, not, cross
U	[ʌ]	а	spun, truck, butter

Do not forget that in a closed syllable, all letters are pronounced briefly.

Open syllable
Letter	Transcription	Pronunciation	Examples
A	[ei]	Hey	game, flame, lake
E	[i:]	и	he, be, Pete
I	[aɪ]	ouch	mine,, nine, cry, bye, type
Y
O	[əʊ]	OU	bone, tone, rose
U	[jʊ]	ю	pupil, music, cube

And the vowels of an open syllable are always smooth and drawn out.

Open syllable with r
Letter	Transcription	Pronunciation	Examples
A	[eə]	ea	square
E	[ɪə]	ue	here
I	[aɪə]	aye	tired
Y
O	[ɔː]	Toothpaste	more
U	[jʊə]	yue	cycle

Remember that the letter r after a vowel is usually not pronounced.

Accordingcovered syllable with r
Letter	Transcription	Pronunciation	Examples
A	[ɑː]	aa	dark
O	[ɔː]	Toothpaste	sports
E	[ɜː]	ё	pert, bird, myrtle, burn
I
Y
U

Now we know how to read vowels in English words. But there is one more thing that needs to be learned for a perfect English reading.

Diphthongs and triphthongs in English

An important aspect of English for beginners is diphthongs and triphthongs, i.e. combinations of two or three letters with a special sound. Their pronunciation is called sliding, because

first, the main sound is strongly pronounced, and then it is smoothly transferred into a secondary sound. Diphthongs are a kind of exception and do not obey general grammatical laws, so you just have to memorize them.

The table below will help us learn the rules for reading English diphthongs for beginners.

English diphthongs
Combinations	Transcription	Pronunciation
air, ear, are	[eə]	uh *
ye, igh, uy, ie	[aɪ]	ouch
ea, ey, ai, ei, ei	[ei]	Hey
ere, eer, ier, ear	[ɪə]	uie
oy, oi	[ɔɪ]	ой
ou, ow	[au]	aah
ou, ow, oa, ol	[əu]	ooh
ure, ue, our, oor	[uə]	uue
English triphthongs
ower, our	[aʊə]	aaue
eur, ure	[juə]	yue
iet, ire, ier, iar, yre	[aɪə]	aye

* doubled letters indicate the length of the first sound in relation to the second.

So, we examined the basic nuances of reading in English. Treat the outlined rules responsibly: conduct reading lessons more often and be sure to learn to distinguish between the types of syllables in English. Otherwise, you will make gross mistakes in pronunciation, which will lead to a complete misunderstanding of the interlocutor of your words. Good luck in learning English and see you soon!

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Rules for reading English for beginners: a table of letters and diphthongs with transcription and pronunciation

Transcription is a recording of the sound of a letter or word in the form of a sequence of special phonetic symbols.

Transcription is directly related to reading rules. In English, not everything that is seen (letter combinations) is read (as in Russian and Spanish, for example).

When textbooks (mostly Russian) tell about the rules of reading, much attention is paid to the type of syllable. Usually about five of these types are described.

But such a detailed theoretical presentation of the rules of reading does not greatly facilitate the fate of a beginner, and may even mislead him.

It must be remembered that a good knowledge of the rules of reading is a great merit of practice, not theory.

A little patience! Both transcription and reading rules are easy to learn in a short time. Then you will be surprised: «How easy it has become to read and write!»

Note! However, do not forget that, despite its widespread distribution, the English language does not cease to be a LANGUAGE, full of exceptions, stylistic and other delights. And at any stage of language learning, and especially at the initial stage, often look into the dictionary.

Transcription icons and their pronunciation

Notes:

Reading rules

English words have several types of syllables. However, to understand the whole system, it is necessary to remember and distinguish between the following two types: open и закрытый.

Open syllable ends in a vowel: game

Rules for reading English for beginners, table. Intonation and stress in English

At the initial stage of learning English, you inevitably have to deal with the differences between your native language and a foreign one. Reading in English for beginners, children and adults is usually one of the first steps in learning.

And the first such differences between Russian and English are revealed as soon as you start learning to read in English. You are faced with the transcription and reading rules of the English language.

These two concepts are related, since with the help of transcription we can record and read the sounds that vowels and consonants convey in various combinations. But the reading rules explain exactly how the letters are pronounced in different environments.

There are a lot of reading rules in English, and they relate to both vowels and consonants. In addition, a huge number of words are not read according to the rules, that is, they are exceptions. Therefore, it begins to seem that it is extremely difficult to learn all this.

In fact, the rules of reading need to be learned, but there is no need to memorize them. After doing a few exercises on reading rules, you will already know how exactly the same type of words are read.

In the learning process, when you read and listen to a variety of study materials, the spelling, pronunciation and meaning of new words will be memorized as a whole.

Features of English pronunciation

This situation is due to the fact that historically in the English language there existed, and there are still many dialects in which the same letters and letter combinations were read in different ways, which eventually became entrenched in official English. An example is the combination of letters ough.

The words though, through, thought differ by only one letter, and the combination of letters ough is read differently in all words.

The role of transcription in teaching English reading

So, as we have already said, in addition to the numerous rules for reading in English, difficulties arise when mastering the transcription of the English language. Transcription is the recording of speech sounds using special characters.

You should not avoid it, as it is the best assistant in learning a language, which, firstly, will save you time when memorizing new words, and secondly, it will help to avoid mistakes in pronunciation. After all, when you write out or memorize new words, you definitely need to know how they are read correctly.

There are two options for how to do this. The first is to listen to it in some online resource, and the second is to watch the transcription.

Now in some tutorials, as well as on training sites, you can find «English transcription in Russian». It is believed that writing an English word in Russian letters is much easier than learning some incomprehensible phonetic symbols. In fact, this is a delusion.

English phonetics differs from Russian so much that Russian letters can only approximately convey the pronunciation of English words, and mostly the simplest ones, the reading of which even without this kind of «transcription» is not difficult.

Some English sounds in Russian simply do not exist, and the correct pronunciation of English and Russian sounds similar at first glance may have certain differences.

Therefore, we recommend that you take the time to study transcription icons and read sounds. This is one of the basic knowledge in mastering the rules of reading English for beginners. Knowledge of transcription will serve you faithfully at all stages of your learning.

We analyze the rules for reading English

There are different classifications of the rules for reading consonants and vowels in English. For vowels, as a rule, there are 4 types of syllables. These are the 4 types of environment a vowel can find itself in and which affects its pronunciation.

I must say that the number of exceptions and variants of reading the same letter combinations in different words give reason to consider the reading rules rather general recommendations that should be studied before starting to read.

To familiarize yourself with the rules of reading in English, we suggest that you take as a basis the tables with options for reading letters, which are given in his textbook for children “English. 1-4 grades in diagrams and tables «N.Vakulenko.

These English reading rules for children cover almost every possible reading of vowels and consonants in English.

But before we go directly to the tables, we will deal with two more concepts that you will surely come across when you get acquainted with the reading rules. it open и closed syllable.

The syllable is called openWhen

Examples of words with an open type of syllable (you can listen with sound):

age, blue, bye, fly, go

The syllable is called closedWhen

Examples of words with a closed type of syllable:

bed, big, box, hungry, stand

So, let’s formulate the rules for reading English for beginners: tables for reading vowels and consonants.

Vowel reading tables

Consonant reading tables

Vowel reading rules

Moreover, all these letters are not always pronounced as they are called in accordance with the alphabet. It is important to remember that no English word ends in I or U.

Before turning directly to reading vowels, let’s dwell on the consideration of English syllables.

This is important because the vowel can be read differently depending on the type of syllable.

A syllable (or syllable) is one or more sounds pronounced together with one push of air. A syllable is a constituent part of a word that has a direct impact on pronunciation.

There are open and closed syllables. Closed is called such because it ends in a consonant. Open: eye, see

Closed: bad, plan

In an open syllable, there are no problems with vowels: they sound the same as in the alphabet, with the exception of Y, which reads «ah».

You can visually familiarize yourself with the rules using the table below. When this table becomes clear to you, we will give and analyze in more detail examples of all cases.

We will read the letter I in a closed syllable as «and»: big (big). In other cases, it all depends on the combination of letters: igh (ah: night (night)), ir (e: bird (bird)) or ire (aye: tired (tired)).

Rules for reading consonants

The English alphabet has 20 consonant letters. Some of them are deaf and voiced pairs. At the same time, unlike Russian, they do not soften here and always sound solid.

The consonants c, g, s, and x have two different readings depending on which letter they are next to. For clarity, we present a table.

As we can see, the reading of consonants is influenced by the letters a, i, o, y, e, as well as consonants and stressed sounds.

There are also a number of rules that indicate how certain consonants are read correctly in different combinations. Let’s turn to another table, and then we will analyze it in more detail using examples.

If there are consonants sh next to them, then we read them as «sh»: sheep (sheep), bookshelf (bookshelf). At the same time, it is important that this combination is pronounced exactly like that, regardless of the place occupied in the word.

The combination ch gives us the sound «h», which is also always preserved, and the position in the word is not important: chain (chain) or March (March).

When reading the combination of consonants ck, correctly pronounce it as «k». However, this rule is true only in those cases when these consonants follow the short A and other sounds: back (back).

Th can be read differently depending on which word this combination is in.

If we see it at the beginning of a significant word or at the end of a word, then it is pronounced like «s», pronounced through clenched teeth: birth (birth) or thin (thin).

At the beginning of a pronoun or service word, this combination sounds more solid: this (this), they (they).

The consonant wh also has two pronunciations. If it is followed by the letter O, then it is correct to read it as «x»: who (who), whole (all).

Before the rest of the letters, it is pronounced as «in»: where (where), what (what).

Qu at the beginning of a word reads «q»: queue.

Separately, it should be said about the combination with the English letters a, u, o and i. These rules for reading English are clearly demonstrated in the following table.

Now that we know about all the complexities of consonants in English, it remains for us to consider the staging of stress in English words. After that, you can safely say that you have mastered the rules of reading the English language, and all that remains is to tirelessly practice and hone the knowledge gained.

How to put stress correctly?

Stress plays a huge role in the rules for reading English words. It should be given special attention. If there are fewer problems with the French language in this sense (the emphasis is always on the last syllable), and in Russian you will have to memorize almost every word separately, then with English everything is different. There are a number of laws you need to memorize to help you stress correctly and make your reading of English words correct.

We put stress on the first syllable in most cases when it comes to two-syllable nouns and adjectives: table (table), clever (smart).

The last syllable becomes stressed in the bulk of trisyllabic verbs: to decide (decide). The penultimate is stressed for words that end in –ic, –sion, and –tion: solution, biologic.

While all of these reading rules are important and require memorization, keep in mind that English has many exceptions. You will also have to memorize them, or always have special dictionaries at hand.

Learning to read with Capital School Center

Classes at the Capital School Center are characterized by the fact that teachers try to equally combine the study of grammar, vocabulary and pronunciation. At the exit, all our students have already mastered all the rules of reading in English, and can also speak and write fluently.

A separate difficulty for beginners is the transcription, which is taught to compose in order to just read English words correctly.

It is an excellent tool for memorizing the pronunciation, but very few people will be able to learn how to compose it on their own.

We will help you to master it without any particular difficulties and not delve into the linguistic jungle.

Of course, in the classroom, we are also directly engaged in reading in English.

At your disposal are excellent adapted English texts on different topics and with different levels of difficulty, suitable for both beginners and those who have been studying the language for a long time.

It is believed that in order to formulate the pronunciation of words and texts, it is best to study with a native speaker. This opinion is fair, because who knows better than a person who speaks English since childhood about all its intricacies and laws in general and the rules of reading in particular? However, it should be borne in mind that such classes are not always suitable for those who are just starting to learn English.

Those who plan to take the IELTS or TOEFL exam are also required to familiarize themselves with the reading rules.

Another way to practice English is to travel to his country. Our school offers study trips to the UK and the USA, during which you will listen to English language and speak independently with the locals all the time.

Our school offers its clients a wide range of services. Depending on your needs, we will select the format of teaching English that is convenient for you. We have courses for those who are just starting their studies or want to continue their studies.

Upon completion of the courses, all of our students are tested and receive a certificate proving their level of English proficiency.

Sign up for a free trial lesson online or by phone. We will be glad to see you and are ready to answer any of your questions!

To Whom It May Concern Alternatives – How to Address a Letter When You Don’t Know Who Will Read It

If you need to reach out to someone but don’t know their name, what do you do? Well, the answer used to be, «To Whom It May Concern.»

Why did this stuffy-sounding phrase become the go-to form of address for unknown recipients? Well, back in the day (before Google, basically), it was a lot harder to find basic information about people you didn’t know.

But since people still had to apply for jobs and get in touch with companies, a standard solution seemed helpful. Thus, «To Whom. » started being used.

But the times they are a-changin’.

So how do you address a cover letter or email to someone you’ve never met, or whose name you just can’t find, in the 21st century?

In this article, we’ll look at:

How to Address a Letter in the First Place

First of all, it helps to know how exactly to start your letter in the first place. This may seem obvious, but there are a few things to consider.

Tone and Formality

You should probably avoid any language that’s too familiar or where your meaning could be misconstrued (see the «Hey babe» above). Until you’ve established a bit of a rapport with this person, keep it polite and basic.

Titles and Gender Neutrality

If you know the person’s name, you have a couple options when addressing them.

You might want to address them as Ms. X or Mr. Y. Just make sure you know how that person identifies so you can use the proper title. If you’re not sure, you can try to find out more information (see methods below) or choose some other form of address.

For women/femmes, be aware of whether you use Miss, Mrs, or Ms. The safest bet is to use «Ms.», as it doesn’t imply a married or single status. If you know that the person prefers one over the others (you see «Please contact Miss Jennifer Morgan for more information» or something similar), use that.

If you want to discover how someone identifies, you can try to find them on social media (Twitter, LinkedIn, or Instagram are probably your best bets). Sometimes people will list their pronouns in their profiles, like «Jennifer Morgan, she/her» or «AJ DePew, they/them». Not everyone does this, but it’s becoming more common.

Lastly, if someone has a Doctorate or other official title/honorific, you should address them that way. For example, «Dear Dr. Morgan» or «Dear Professor DePew».

Not all of this applies if you don’t know the person’s name. But it’s still good to keep in mind when communicating with someone you don’t know.

Now let’s get into those alternative forms of address.

Alternatives to «To Whom It May Concern»

If you don’t know the name of the person to whom you’re writing, that’s ok. There are still some decent options that will let them know that you did your research and you care.

Dear (Position/Job Title), like «Dear Director of Sales»

If you’re applying for a job in, say, the Sales department, chances are someone with the title «Director of Sales» will be your boss (or your boss’s boss. ).

And while you most likely aren’t applying directly to that person (that is, they won’t be the first to see your application/cover letter), they’re still a relevant person/position to whom to address your communication.

Using this form of address shows that you’ve at least done your homework regarding the position for which you’re applying, how the departments are structured, and so on.

Dear (Team/Department), like «Dear Social Media Department» or «Dear Social Media Team»

If you’re not sure how the company is structured, or what positions you might interact with if you get the job, you can take it step back.

Starting off with «Dear Social Media Department» isn’t quite as direct as singling out one person, but it’s still relevant and thoughtful.

Using this type of address works well if you’re applying to a larger company/team and it’s really hard to single out one position or person who will definitely see your application.

Keeping it Casual with «Greetings», «Hello», «Good afternoon» and so on

We’ve all probably gotten emails that start with «Hi there!» or just «Hello». These forms of address are certainly more casual than «Dear X», but they might be the right choice in certain situations.

If you can’t find out any specific information about where your application might be going, something like «Hello there» or «Hi there» is a good neutral option. If you’re sending your email first thing in the morning, «Good morning» also works well.

It will be fairly obvious that you have no idea to whom you’re speaking, but at least you’re being polite and neutral.

Before using this option, however, it might be a good idea to do some research into the company’s culture. If it seems like they’re fairly relaxed and casual, these greetings are probably ok.

Dear (Name of person who’d be your boss/to whom you’d report)

Now, perhaps you don’t know exactly to whom you’re applying or sending that cover letter. But you might be able to figure out who your boss would be (if you got the job).

Dig into that company website. Read the bios, figure out who’s on what team, and who’s in charge of what. If you can learn to whom you’d report, you can address your letter to them.

Sure it sounds ambitious (and maybe a tad presumptuous?) but it does show that you know how to do your research. And that you care about the job, the company, and putting your most knowledgeable foot forward.

Dear (Name of the head of the department to which you’re applying)

If you’re not sure who would be your boss if you got the job, but you still want to use someone’s name, zoom out a bit. You can likely figure out who’s the head of whatever department you’d join if you got the position.

Once you’ve found that person, write your letter to them. Again, it’s not the most direct (and they likely won’t even seen your application, at least not in the beginning), but it’s better than «To Whom It May Concern», that’s for sure.

And again, similar to the previous option, it shows that you’re trying to learn as much about the company as possible.

Dear (Name of recruiter)

If you know the name of the recruiter who’ll be reviewing your application, you can certainly address your cover letter to them. It might take a little effort to figure that out, but it does make your cover letter/application stand out.

If you’re working with a recruiter, you can ask them. You can also get in touch with the company and see if they’ll tell you who that person is. But if you can’t figure that out.

Dear (Recruiting Manager or Hiring Manager)

Sometimes those names really are elusive. But it’s a pretty good guess to assume that a recruitment or hiring manager will be involved in the process. So addressing your letter to the position might get their attention.

Dear (Position for which you’re applying) Hiring Manager, like «Dear Network Engineering Hiring Manager»

When you want to be as specific as you can, but don’t know a name, you can always address your communication to the team or committee that’s actually hiring you.

To do that, just list the roll you’re applying for (like Network Engineer, Social Media Manager, or Database Analyst) followed by «Search Committee», «Hiring Manager», or «Hiring Team» – for example, «Dear Network Engineer Hiring Team».

This way you show that you’re aware of the department you’d be part of if you get the job and you’re directing your inquiry to them.

Dear (Department) Head, or Dear Head of (Department)

If you want to target the head of your (hopefully) future team, you can address your letter to the head of that department.

It’s ok if you don’t know their name – just say something like «Dear Network Engineering Department Head».

Dear (Name of referral)

Lastly, if you know someone who works at the company, and they’ve given you a referral, you can always address your letter to them.

This is particularly effective because it shows that you have a relationship with someone who already works there, and you can be fairly sure that your letter/application will make it past the «first look».

Your friend or acquaintance can check out your letter and then decide who the best person would be to review it.

Bonus: Dear (Full name)

If you find the name of someone on the hiring committee or in the department to which you’re applying, that’s great. But what if you’re not familiar with the origins of that name, and how people are addressed in that part of the world?

In this case, it can be a good idea to use the person’s full name. In some places, like Hungary, Taiwan, or Japan, for example, people list their last names first. So by using their full name, you’re not presuming to call them by only their first (or last) name.

How to find the right contact person

If you’re determined to find a name to which to address your letter, there are a number of ways you can go about it. You can:

When it’s ok to use «To Whom It May Concern»

There are a few situations where it’s appropriate to use «To Whom It May Concern». Mostly they occur when you don’t need or want to know the name of the person you’re addressing.

So you can use that phrase when:

Now you know how to address your correspondence when you don’t know your reader’s name. See, it’s not as scary (or as outdated) as it seems.

101 Open When Letter Ideas For Best Friends

B y now, everybody has heard of the ‘open when’ letter phenomena.

Open when letters have become a sensation among many, and are being used even for friendships, children from parents, and co-workers.

The true reason people use these letters, however, is for their friends or family members, especially when people partake in long-distance relationships.

These letters are free, come from the heart, and will be great brownie points in your relationship.

The following are the top 101 open when letter ideas for you to use for your partner, friends, and close relatives.

What Will I Learn?

Open When Letter Rules

This sweet letter comes with a couple of rules, and for good reason; it gives your special someone something to look forward to.

1) No Peeking

The main rule of this letter is no peeking!

This spoils the surprise and can put a damper on the time and effort your partner put into your letter for you.

2) Keep it a Secret

The next most important rule is that you do not show your ‘open when’ letter to anyone else!

These letters are meant for you and your special someone; they are private, personal, and intimate.

3) Open When Appropriate

And lastly, you are only to open the letter when it applies; for example, if it says “open when you get home” or “open when you are visiting family”, you open your letter at that time.

What You Can Put in ‘Open When’ Letters

Now let’s look at some things you can put in an ‘open when’ letter to make it sweet and awesome.

1) Add Interesting Things

You can add a multitude of things to your letter to your partner.

However, most people find that adding these things seem to make their letters more heartfelt, sweet, and interesting.

2) Small gifts

Some people have added small gifts, such as;

Money A gift card Keychain Some type of gift that reminds them of a date A moment they had Etc.

It is entirely up to the writer of the letter what they add if anything.

3) Decorative envelopes

To make letters pop, people have decorated the envelopes of their letters.

[This gives your partner or a friend something to study and look at before opening their letter, and it makes them excited and feels loved upon seeing a decorative envelope rather than a plain envelope.

4) Instructions

These instructions can be to call or text your partner after opening, to make sure they have something to drink and a snack in case the letter is very long.

Or to get comfortable and make sure they are ready to read it.

5) Save x amount of letters/ open x amount per week

If you are writing more than one ‘open when’ letter and sending together, you can add a note to make sure your other mate only opens some letters per week.

This makes the letters last longer while you write new ones, or can last your partner until you can visit them.

6) Date mementos

Some people have added date mementos to their ‘open when’ letters.

Much like a small gift, these mementos can be sentimental and several things.

Some ideas being a ticket stub from your first date to the movies, a preserved flower from date number three, or your first photo together.

So now let’s dive right into the meat of this article.

101 Open When Ideas For Your Best Friends

So let’s roll the ball and begin right away.

1) Open When You Are Eating Dinner

For this ‘open when’ idea, you can include memories of dinner dates.

Others have also included photos from their first dinner dates, or stories from when they first made dinner for their friends or family members.

Also, you can even send them a recipe for dinner you’d like them to try one time.

2) Open When You Can’t Sleep

If you write an ‘open when’ later for when your beloved can’t sleep, you can include a playlist for them to listen to that can help lull them to sleep

Or add some book titles they can try that may help them sleep.

3) Open When You First Wake Up

This idea is great for couples to write when their other mate is not used to their loved ones not being beside them in the morning.

Typical points in the letter include things you would say when you first wake up, or what you would want to tell your spouse before they start their day.

Little things that make them feel loved and thought of.

4) Open When You Are Visiting Friends

Many couples tend to visit friends of theirs together, and it can be particularly lonely when you are without your best friends.

Writing an ‘open when’ letter that is specifically for times like this can be uplifting.

Adding things such as plans for your next meet-up with friends, or particular memories with said friends can be comforting and fill your mate with peace.

5) Open When You Are on a Work Break

Working to come home to an empty house or apartment is rather depressing; having things to say or rehash but no one there can be depressing and bring people down.

Writing an ‘open when’ letter that touches on your day, or letting your spouse or best friend know how much they were missed can be very caring and make their night comforted and cozy.

6) Open When You Feel Grumpy

We all have bad days, and when your partner isn’t with you, those days can become darker.

Writing a letter for when a girlfriend or boyfriend is in a bad mood can lift them up and turn their entire day around.

Adding points such as funny memories, positive songs to listen to, or just a simple “I love you” and words of encouragement will make any letter tender and loving.

7) Open When You Are Anxious

We all get anxious, however, if you have a partner with anxiety, the simplest gestures can make their anxiety waves not as scary.

When writing an ‘open when’ during times of anxiety, adding encouraging words, promises or cuddles, kisses, and love.

Or even suggesting movies to watch and self-care hobbies or activities can help your special someone when you physically are not there to do so.

8) Open When You Feel Distant From Me

Relationships often have times where couples feel like a wall is between them; an ‘open when’ letter in these times can be a great reassurance.

Reiterating promises you once made your partner, as well as making future date plans, among fun memories, can be great points to add to your letter.

9) Open When You Are Visiting Your Parents

Visiting our parents without our special someone can sometimes be lonely, especially if your parents were used to seeing your partner with you.

When writing this ‘open when’ letter, add things that will make the time spent with their parents less lonely.

And add a couple of funny anecdotes they could tell their mom and dad that will get the conversation off of you being gone.

You can always throw in a ‘hello’ or ‘miss them’ to his family as well.

10) Open When You Are Having a Boys/Girls Night

Having a night out with the guys or girlfriends can be a great time, but very lonely when the topic of conversation comes to your friends or family members.

Having an ‘open when’ letter written specifically for this time can bring them comfort.

You can add encouraging words for them to have fun, to tell them how much they are loved, and to call you or text you when they are home safe!

11) Open When You Are Taking a Bath

If you were one of those couples who loved taking relaxing baths or showers together, an ‘open when’ letter can make your partner feel like you are still there.

Saying things you usually said during this intimate time, or plans for future fun baths and relaxing times can help them enjoy themselves.

It doesn’t hurt to surprise them with a gift card to their favorite spa, either.

12) Open When You Need a Reminder

Long-distance relationships are very trying and often heartbreaking; many can feel that the relationship will not last and be afraid their mate is out with someone new.

Letting them know how much you care and how much you love them is a great ‘open when’ letter during these times of worry and distress.

13) Open When You Need Reassurance

If you are dating or married to someone, who has been hurt in the past and feels like they are not worthy, an ‘open when’ letter for reassurance is the perfect letter for them.

Putting their fears to rest as well as letting them know they are the sun, moon, and stars in your sky can make them feel loved as well as comfortable while you are gone.

14) Open When You Miss My Voice

One of the hardest things in long-distance relationships according to friends or family members is not hearing their partner’s voice every day.

An ‘open when’ for times like these can be crucial and help them get through the quiet and long days and nights.

Upon adding how much you miss their voice, and cannot wait to talk their ear off, adding a small recording of your voice can make their day.

15) Open When You Thought Of Me

Often your partner can flash through your mind at random times.

And these thoughts can cause a wave of sadness when you are not there to be with them.

A small ‘open when’ letter just to tell them you are thinking of them as well can make those thoughts happy instead of sad.

16) Open When You Are Stressed

Another hard part of long-distance relationships is not having your spouse or best friend to come home to when work, or life in general, is stressing them out.

An ‘open when’ letter can cause their stress to momentarily melt away.

Letting them know you cannot wait to give them a massage or hear all about their troubles will make them feel like they are not alone in their stress.

17) Open When You Need to Know How Much I Love You

Sometimes hearing a simple “I love you” from your partner can make an insecure partner feel better.

When you are in a long-distance relationship, it isn’t always easy to let them know how much you love them just when they need to hear it; that’s why an ‘open when’ is perfect for these rough times.

Telling them exactly how you feel and assuring them your love is not wavering can make even the slightest worry of losing you go away.

18) Open When You Miss My Jokes

If you are the comedian in the relationship, and you are now gone, it can make your partner feel the laughter and joy have been removed from their life.

Writing a simple ‘open when’ letter filled with;

Funny anecdotes New jokes you’ve come up with or heard Or suggesting a funny TV show or comedy routine to watch

Will make your partner feel the comedy is still there, even when you aren’t.

19) Open When You Miss My Singing

If you used to sing a lot, whether it was to your spouse or just for fun, it can be quiet when you are not there.

Writing an ‘open letter’ telling them you will put on a full concert for them, or to check out some of your favorite songs you always used to sing to can be a source of comfort.

Adding a little CD or MP3 with you singing songs can also be a bright spot in their day.

20) Open When We Have a Fight

Fighting is a normal part of any relationship; however, if your partner is used to people leaving them after fights, an ‘open when’ letter specifically for when you have fought can be comforting.

Let them know it was just a fight, and that you will still love them, and that it isn’t over because of one silly argument.

It will strengthen your relationship and make them feel good during this rocky time.

21) Open When You Miss My Hugs

Touch and intimacy are a huge part of relationships, and it can be a huge thing your special person misses when you are gone.

Writing them an ‘open when’ letter detailing how you cannot wait to hold them or to spend a day curled up.

And watching your favorite movies will make them excited and feel you are still there — even if they cannot temporarily feel you with them.

22) Open When You Need a Kiss

Some couples can become addicted to their lover’s kisses, touch, or voice.

In times like these, they can miss your kiss the most and they can feel empty without you — and that’s where an ‘open when’ letter comes in.

Let them know you are missing their kiss, and leaving a little kiss print will help keep those blues away!

23) Open When You Need to Cuddle

If your partner has a hard day, feeling your arms around them brings them ultimate comfort; but this is an impossibility in long-distance relationships.

Let them know you miss their cuddles and that you have a whole date planned just for holding them when you return.

It will bring a smile to their face.

24) Open When You See Me A Week From Today

When you are a week away from seeing your partner, a cute ‘open when’ letter will get them more excited for the pending visit.

You can give them an idea of what you all will be doing, let them know you are just as excited as they are.

And talk about what you would like to get accomplished with their visit to you or you to them.

25) Open When You Get A Pet

When your partner gets a new pet, write them an ‘open when’ to make them feel you are welcoming their new pet into your life.

Send them ideas for pet names, talk about how you are excited to meet the new addition, and send them a gift card to a pet store to buy their new pet a toy.

26) Open When You Miss Dancing With Me

If you and your partner loved to dance, and it was a weekly (or nightly) occurrence, that aspect of your relationship can be missed.

Send them an ‘open when’ letter of ideas for your next dance marathon, give them ideas of dance movies to watch, and just let them know that your dancing lives aren’t ending; they are just on hold.

27) Open When You Get An Email From Me

In long-distance relationships, emails and text messages are something most rely on to keep the flame alive.

Send them an ‘open when’ detailing things you like about emailing them.

Let them know you care and will continue to keep this method of communicating going until they are home.

28) Open When You Are On Your Way To Visit Me

Another way to add excitement to your pending reunion is to write an ‘open when’ they are on their way to see you.

You can tell them how excited you are, that you are counting down the hours or days, and you can even hint at a surprise you want to give them upon arrival.

29) Open When You Are Headed Home From Visiting Me

Leaving to go back home after a visit can be incredibly emotional.

Writing your partner an ‘open when’ for the trip home can make them feel less heartbroken that you are no longer in reach.

Letting them know you loved the visit you had with them and that your next visit will be even better will make your upset partner feel a bit better about their trip home.

30) Open When You Feel Like Crying

Life can throw curveballs that can knock people on their behinds, and when this happens we all want to break down and cry.

Writing a letter for these moments can make them feel like you are still there, even if your physical presence is many miles away.

Uplifting them and telling them even the strongest people cry will make them feel less sad and embarrassed with their breakdown.

31) Open When You Need A Laugh

Tough days are bound to occur, and with their special someone gone, people in relationships often miss having their partners there to make them laugh.

Sending them an ‘open when’ letter that is full of funny stories and ideas for good movies to watch will bring them a smile and a laugh in their time of need.

32) Open When You Are Unpacking

If your loved one has just moved into a new place or has just gotten back from visiting you, an ‘open when’ will give them a chance to take a breather and feel like you are there helping them.

Writing and letting them know you cannot wait to see their home and that you cannot wait until you are living with them will make them feel this constant travel is worthwhile.

33) Open When It’s The Day Before We See Each Other

A special ‘open when’ can get them ready and excited to see you the day before you are set to see each other.

Sometimes nerves can make couples jittery, even if they have been together for many years.

Even the simplest “I love you” and you are awaiting the call they are outside will make your partner feel special.

34) Open When It’s Our Anniversary

Anniversaries apart can send even the strongest partner in a bout of depression.

Surprising them with a special ‘open when’ for your anniversary can make them feel they are thought of and you love them.

Treat it as an average anniversary; send them a small trinket with their letter and write down everything you would say if they were in front of you.

34) Open When It’s The Anniversary of Our First Date

If you and your partner are the type of couple to celebrate milestone anniversaries.

And ‘open when’ letter for your very first date can take them down memory lane and make their dreariest day a special one.

If you have special trinkets or physical things from your first date, it’s a great idea to send it with your letter and to take that stroll down memory lane with them.

35) Open When You Get Home From the Movies

If your partner loves movies, a special ‘open when’ for when they get back from a movie can be sweet.

Let them know that you have a few movie suggestions they should see the next time they visit the theater.

Remind them of past dates to the movies (including old ticket stubs!).

Or tell them your next date should be a movie date.

36) Open When You Are Watching Our Favorite TV Show

If you and your partner loved watching shows together, write an ‘open when’ for your spouse, boyfriend, or girlfriend for times they are watching the shows you used to watch together.

This will let them feel you are still there watching with them even if you are far away.

Let them know what you are watching.

Remind them of new seasons of your shows that are coming up, and promise them you will have a binge-watching Netflix marathon when you visit.

37) Open When Our Song Is On The Radio

Every couple has a song that is “their song”.

Write a special ‘open when’ for when they hear your song on the radio; write down the lyrics in case they don’t know them, remind them why it is your favorite song.

And promise them that you will sing them that song soon when you are with them again.

38) Open When Your Life Feels Like It’s Crumbling

Tough times can happen at any moment; we can lose our jobs, get sick, or lose important people.

Write an ‘open when’ your partner’s life feels like it is in shambles.

Remind them tough times don’t last, that they are stronger than they think, and months from now this will be a distant memory and you will be there for the next tough challenge in their lives.

39) Open When You Need Encouragement

We all need to hear from our partners that things are not as bad as they seem and we aren’t alone in our battles.

‘ Open when’ letters that are full of encouraging words, positive reminders, and tons of love can make anyone who is feeling low and unsure of themselves loved and assured of their place in your relationship, and in their own life.

40) Open When You’re Planning Our Next Visit

Visitations are a huge part of long-distance relationships.

Surprising your partner with an open when letter pertaining to your next visit can be fun and give them ideas.

Suggest places to go, let them know you have a whole day planned for the two of you, and tell them how much you have missed them.

41) Open Before You Call or Text Me

A short but sweet ‘open when’ can be before you have your partner call or text you.

This can be a surprise you add in your letter, a simple I love you or anything you may want to tell them in letter form.

42) Open When You’ve Booked Our Next Visit

Booking a visit to see your special partner is a very exciting time and can be made more exciting with a sweet ‘open when’ letter.

Your letter can include your own excitement, ask where your partner would like to go or what they would like to do, and to make sure they tell you all of the information so you can mark it in your planner or calendar.

43) Open When It’s The Anniversary of Our First Kiss

Anniversaries are exciting and most couples like to celebrate all of their firsts.

This ‘open when’ can be filled with the story of your first kiss so you and your partner can go down memory lane.

And you can include how much you would like to kiss them at the same place as your first kiss for your next anniversary.

44) Open When You Need Something Romantic

Romance is something deeply valued in relationships.

When your partner is needing that extra spark, you can surprise them with an ‘open when’ especially for this moment.

Add something spontaneous you would like to do, tell them you’ve planned a romantic getaway when you are both able to go, or write an old-fashioned love letter.

45) Open When You Need Something Funny

Laughter is said to be the best medicine; so when your partner is in need of something humorous, write them an ‘open when letter’.

You can add funny quotes from comedians, write your own funny story just for them, or tell them a funny story from your past that they might not know about you.

46) Open When You Need Something Positive

Positivity is what keeps us going and can save us from losing our minds.

When your partner is having a particularly tough time, it may be time to write them an ‘open when’.

Fill it with positivity quotes, tell them exactly how they make a positive impact on you and your bit of the world.

And share inspiring and positive stories of some of their favorite celebrities.

47) Open When You’re Worried We Won’t Make It

Doubt can creep in the minds of some of the most steady couples, and that’s okay.

When these times hit, simply write an ‘open when’ for your sweetheart.

Let them know you aren’t going anywhere and that you will make time to talk about their worries and concerns.

48) Open When I’m Not Available to Talk

Sometimes we need to talk to our loved ones and they are not available, and this can be painful.

For these times, an ‘open when’ letter comes in handy.

Let your loved ones know that you love them.

Tell them you will be more than happy to clear some space to talk about what is bothering them

And make sure they know you we’re not ignoring them; something important was keeping you away at that moment in time.

49) Open When You Miss Holding My Hand

The simplest gestures, such as hand-holding, can be what your special friend needs.

However, when you live far away, it’s impossible to do; but an ‘open when’ letter can help comfort them on days they need a simple hug or to hold your hand.

Tell them that soon they will be able to hold your hand as much as they want, that you miss their hand in yours.

And remind them of a sweet story regarding when you last held hands.

50) Open When You Finished Watching Our Favorite Movie

Every couple has a “favorite movie” to watch together, and that movie may sometimes bring comfort when their special one isn’t with them.

Write your lover a sweet ‘open when’ to enjoy after the movie; this is when most couples like to sit down and talk whether it’s about life or the movie.

Tell them how you cannot wait to watch ‘your’ movie with them again and how you hope that movie always makes them think of you.

51) Open When Life is Becoming Too Much

Life has a way of draining people and making them feel they are being pushed to their limits, and when times like those hit, an ‘open when’ can remind them of how good life can be.

Jot down how strong they are, how they have made an impact on their community, and how beautiful life truly is.

Remind them you are always there and it’s you and your sweetheart against the world.

52) Open When You Feel Happy

Giving your best friend an extra bit of happiness when they are already happy can make them feel blessed.

Send them an ‘open when’ and add in the letter what you love about them, how their happiness is infectious, and how you love how they make you happy.

It will brighten their day.

53) Open When You Feel Overwhelmed

Feeling overwhelmed is normal; whether you have taken on too much responsibility from work or you have other things are going on.

Letting your partner know you are there to ease the burden can be all they need; that’s where an ‘open when’ letter comes in.

Let them know you are up to help them with any extra responsibility you can, even if you are far away.

And remind them they can handle anything they have in their life, especially with you by their side.

54) Open When You Need to Smell My Perfume/Cologne

Smelling your lover’s cologne or perfume can open their senses and make their mood go from low to high.

When you write them an ‘open when’ letter, you can spray a bit of your cologne or perfume on it (like couples did in the old days!)

And let them know you love them and wanted them to have a piece of you, even if it is a small piece.

55) Open When It’s The Anniversary of Our Engagement

If you wanted to do something special for your husband or wife, an ‘open when’ to celebrate the day you agreed to marry them is a sentimental and sweet gift.

Include in your letter what was going through your mind during the proposal

Let them know your love has only grown since that day.

And you cannot wait to celebrate your next anniversary with them.

56) Open When It’s Our Wedding Anniversary

Celebrating wedding anniversaries apart is one of the most heartbreaking things a couple can go through.

This is why an ‘open when’ letter for your wedding anniversary can make your wife or husband’s entire day.

Remind them of specific moments from your big day, let them know you are planning to make your next anniversary extra special, and always let them know how in love with them you are!

57) Open When It’s The Anniversary of Our First Cruise

Cruises are a big thing when you are dating or married, so sending your loved one an ‘open when’ to celebrate this milestone can be the bright spot in their day.

Rehash the cruise with them in the letter, let them know how excited you are for your next cruise, and ask them if they have any new destinations in mind.

58) Open When It’s The Anniversary of Our First Disney Trip

Disney World (or Disney Land) isn’t just for kids!

If you and your loved one have taken a Disney trip, send them an ‘open when’ on the anniversary of your trip.

Ask them what their favorite part of the trip was, surprise them with a new vacation to The Happiest Place on Earth, and tell them what you loved about the first trip to the theme park!

59) Open When You’ve Been Gone a Week

If you and your partner have recently started living apart, sending them an ‘open when’ can ease their pain.

Let them know how much you miss them, remind them it isn’t forever, and rehash the last week of your life living somewhere new.

60) Open When You’ve Been Gone a Month

If you and your loved one have gone a whole month without living together, send them an ‘open when’ on the anniversary of you being gone.

Tell them what the month without them has been like, suggest they come to visit as soon as they can, and tell them you will be with them again soon.

61) Open When Something Good Has Happened

If your lover has recently had something good happen to them, sending them an ‘open when’ can make that special time in their life much more special.

Let them know how proud you are of them, tell them you want to hear all about the good news.

And someday soon you both will celebrate this great news together.

62) Open When You Need a Confidence Boost

Our self-confidence can sometimes waver, and that’s a part of life.

For these times, writing your better half an ‘open when’ can start repairing their low self-confidence.

Tell them what you love about their appearance.

Tell them why you find them to be more attractive than any person they are comparing themselves to, and let them know you chose them for a reason, and no one can take their place.

63) Open When Something Bad Has Happened

When bad things happen, it feels as if our entire world has been tipped upside down.

Send your better half an ‘open when’ times of tragedy have struck to ease the blow.

Let them know how much you care and ask them if there is anything you can do.

Remind them of past tragedies they have gotten through and that with you in their life, they are not alone in this difficult time.

64) Open When You Need Comfort

Comfort is crucial in a relationship; sometimes when we are not there to physically provide comfort, it can cause your lover to become depressed.

Send your loved ones an ‘open when’ you know they are in need of comfort and add encouraging words, sweet sentiments, and comforting thoughts to them.

It could raise their spirits temporarily while you are gone.

65) Open When You Need to Tell Me Something Important

When your better half has important things to tell you and it cannot be done face to face, it can sadden them.

Send your partner an ‘open when’ for these times.

Tell them you will make time to do a FaceTime so you can see their face while they are telling you what is going on, and remind them that they will soon be by your side.

Let them know you hope what they need to tell you is something happy and they are okay.

66) Open When You’re Heading into Work

Heading to work is one of the most dreary days in our lives. It can be boring, tedious, and can burden us.

Give your lover an ‘open when’ for workdays and let them know just how proud you are of them.

Remind them how far they have come in their place of work, and they can only go up from there.

67) Open When You’re Leaving Work

When leaving work, we can become impatient and cranky.

Write your partner an ‘open when’ for after work so they can take a moment for themselves to collect their thoughts and relax.

Let them know they will soon be home and they can enjoy what is left of their day, and surprise them with a visit or a nice meal.

68) Open When You’ve Heading to a Concert

Music is a big part of many people’s lives, and it brings many comforts in our lives.

Send your better half an ‘open when’ for them to peruse while they are headed to a concert or music festival.

Reminisce about past concerts you have gone to together.

And let them know the next time your favorite artist you both love goes on a tour you will be going with them to see together.

69) Open When You’re Feeling Naughty

We all have days where we feel amorous, and a bit naughty, but our partner cannot physically be there; that’s where an ‘open when’ letter comes in.

Send them a letter detailing what you miss about your times in the bedroom.

Surprise them with naughty photos or a naughty story.

And tell them their next rendezvous in the bedroom will be better than their last.

70) Open When You Are Feeling Unsure of Yourself

We all have times where we feel we are not the best in our jobs, and we feel we could be better.

If your loved one is going through a time they are unsure of their place in work, or life in general, an ‘open when’ can cheer them up.

Let them know how important they are in your life and how they are growing and getting better every day.

71) Open When You Are Outside My Door

A sweet ‘open when’ for when your loved one is waiting outside can give you a chance to make a grand entrance.

Let them know you have a surprise for when you open the door and tell them how long you have waited for this exact moment.

It will get their hearts racing and a huge smile on their face.

72) Open When You’re At Lunch

Lunchtime can be boring and sad, especially when topics of conversation end up in our relationships.

Send your partner an ‘open when’ for lunch days that are awkward and sad.

Let them know that soon they will have plenty of stories to tell their friends and colleagues.

And they will be bringing lunches that you will personally make for them.

73) Open When Your Schedule Is Hectic

Between work, school, and activities, our schedules can be very crazy.

Make sure in times like these your partner has an ‘open when’ letter to read.

Let them know you are doing this for them, and these experiences will be memories to tell your children and grandchildren one day.

A sweet I love you and promise for one day to be all theirs will get you some brownie points, too.

74) Open When You’re Afraid We Are Drifting Apart

We can all drift from a partner at some point; however, it doesn’t last forever.

Send an ‘open when’ they are drifting and let them know you will be here waiting for them.

Let them know you love them and you are going to grow with them, and you understand they may need space or time for themselves.

75) Open When We Haven’t Talked For Two Days

There are times in our relationships where we can’t talk every day.

Write your loved one an ‘open when’ for days you cannot talk but once or twice every couple of days.

Let them know you are going crazy not hearing their voice, you are excited about your next visit, and these times away from each other will end before you both know it.

76) Open When Life Is Coming Between Us

Life can often kill more relationships than people can.

When life is getting crazy, send your best friends an ‘open when’ letter.

Let them know life will calm down soon and you guys will spend more time together.

Assure them you are working to make more time for them and nothing will take you away from them.

77) Open When Your Parents Bring Me Up

Parents love asking about their child’s love life. Write your partner an ‘open when’ when their mom and dad bring you up.

Let them know you miss their parents as much as you miss them.

Tell them a funny story about a time you spent alone with their parents, and plan a special get-together with your partner and their family when you are visiting.

78) Open When You Are Visiting Your Brothers/Sisters

Our siblings often become good friends with our better halves.

Writing them an ‘open when’ can make visits with siblings a better time, especially if their siblings are married and they feel like a third wheel.

Let them know you miss their brothers and sisters and soon they will be visiting them with you there, just as you may have done before.

79) Open When Your Friends Are Driving You Crazy

We all have ups and downs in our relationships; friendships included.

If your partner is going through a rough patch with their friends, write them an ‘open when’ and let them know these times will pass.

Remind them of happier times with their friends and work on communicating better with them.

80) Open When Your Boss Is Worrying You

Our work lives are where most of our stresses come from.

Leave your loved one an ‘open when’ letter when they tell you their boss has been acting weird, or if they feel they are close to losing their job.

Let them know you stand by them regardless of what happens and there are many jobs in the world; they don’t have to stay where they are being treated like dirt.

81) Open When You Feel Unsafe

Life can tear us down and make us feel unsafe, even in our own bodies.

For times like these, an ‘open when’ can make our partner feel safe; with us, within themselves, and in the world.

Let them know you will always protect them and if they are feeling this way to contact you.

Let them know that once you are living together they will always remain safe with you near them.

82) Open When You Need to Feel Loved

We can all feel unloved at some point.

Letting your partner know how much they are loved with a long ‘open when’ letter can help chase those feelings away.

Write them a meaningful poem, treat them to a nice date of their choosing, and just explain how much you love them and can’t see life without them.

83) Open When You Need to Feel Appreciated

There are times even in great relationships where we feel we aren’t being loved right or appreciated, and that’s where a good ‘open when’ letter comes in.

Tell your partner why you appreciate them, let them know they make your life light, and promise you will find better ways to show them how appreciated and loved they truly are.

84) Open When You Feel Worthless

We all have mental health, and mental health can affect us even in the best of relationships.

If you have felt and seen your partner is going through a wave of worthlessness and depression, writing an ‘open when’ filled with positivity and love can make those clouds somewhat lift.

85) Open When You Feel I am not being a Good Boyfriend/Girlfriend

We all have times in relationships where we take our partner for granted, and it sucks.

Write an ‘open when’ for these times you are being impossible, mean, and just neglectful.

Let them know how sorry you are, suggest ways to make it up to them, and even agree to counsel sessions if they have asked you to go with them in the past.

86) Open When You Lose Hope

When your partner is hurting, it hurts you — and them being away from you during times of depression can be unbearable.

Send a special ‘open when’ they are feeling dark and hope is lost.

Let them know you are their guiding light and you will get them through this time.

Include memories of past times they have felt this way and make sure they know how lost you are without them.

87) Open When You Need to See My Face

When loneliness becomes unbearable, special gifts (like an ‘open when’ letter) can put loneliness at ease.

Write them an ‘open when’ and include photos of you.

Let them know you are planning a Skype night date for the two of you, and have them FaceTime you immediately after opening.

88) Open When You Miss My Touch

Touch is a big part of relationships, and it can be greatly missed when your partner lives far away.

Sending them an ‘open when’ for these times can help.

Write to them and let them know you miss their hugs, include a special memory you have regarding their touch.

And remind them that soon you will be able to touch them again.

89) Open When You Had a Dream Of Me

If your partner awakes from a dream of you, waking up can often end in tears.

Send an ‘open when’ for times like these.

Let them know of any dreams you have recently had of them.

Let them know one day they will wake up and you will be beside them, and that sleeping alone will not last forever.

90) Open When You Remember Something Involving Our First Date

If a random thought comes across their mind of your first date, a sweet ‘open when’ letter can brighten their day.

If you have a date at a restaurant, send them something from there (the bill, a napkin, even a card from the restaurant).

Or you can write to them about what you especially loved about your first date wherever you went.

91) Open When I Am Sleeping And You Are Awake

If you are sleeping and your partner has insomnia, they can sometimes feel alone. Write them an ‘open when’ for these moments.

Let them know they can wake you up, give them ideas to help them fall back asleep.

Or lead them to an area in the home that is set up for them be it with candles, soft music, and a relaxing ambiance to help them fall asleep there.

92) Open When You Miss My Cooking

If you were the cook in the relationship, your partner is probably not psyched for mealtime.

Send them an ‘open when’ letter when they are missing your cooking and don’t want to eat anything else.

Add ideas for future dinners you will make for them, remind them that they too are a great cook.

And that you are just as excited to cook for them again as they are excited for you to cook for them.

93) Open When You Feel Lonely

Loneliness can take a toll on anyone, but it can be much worse when you are in a long-distance relationship.

Writing your partner an ‘open when’ for when they are lonely can cheer them up.

Include pictures you have accumulated of the two of you, write things down you’ve wanted to say but have been afraid to.

And just let them know that soon enough you won’t leave without them.

94) Open When You Are On a Vacation With Family

Vacations with the family are always a fun time, but without your partner with you and your family, it can feel as if something is missing.

Writing an ‘open when’ for when your partner is enjoying a special time with their family can make their day.

Let them know you are already planning a trip to see them and their family and the next vacation you all take, you will be with them.

95) Open When You Are Home on Your Day Off

Days off at home can be boring without your partner.

‘Open when’ letters for these days can make them a little more lively and less lonely.

Send your partner ideas of what to do at home, including a sweet poem or memories from past days off you all have spent at home.

And let them know one day you will be enjoying all of your days off together.

96) Open When You Are Singing My Favorite Song

If your partner was the singer in your relationship and they randomly start singing your favorite song, have them open a special ‘open when’ for moments like these.

You can include a new list of songs you love and a special recording of you singing your song, too.

It can be a way of singing a duet, which will make your partner feel you are with them while you are gone.

97) Open When You Buy Me A Gift

If your partner loves to buy you a gift, write them a special ‘open when’.

Include a special thank you, and also have their own gift you have purchased (if small enough)

Or money for them to spoil themselves until you are there to do it for them.

Always make sure to let them know you appreciate and love them.

98) Open When You Are At the Beach

If you and your partner love certain places, such as the beach, writing them a special ‘open when’ they are at the beach can add to the beauty of their day.

Let them know you will soon be there to enjoy the sun and fun, and remind them of past visits to the beach you have taken with them.

Including photos of past visits to the beach can make them smile, too.

99) Open When You Are Surrounded By Our Friends

If your partner lives where both your friends and their own friends are, it can be a lonely time.

Writing a special ‘open when’ they are at a gathering to read some words of encouragement.

And letting them know very soon you will be with them at a similar event will make them feel they are not enjoying life alone.

100) Open When I Feel Too Far Away

If you and your partner are going through separate things in your lives, one of you may feel that you are drifting.

Writing an ‘open when’ letter for these times can bring you closer and make that spark pop again.

Let them know that these times will not last forever and they are not the cause of this distance; life is simply in the way but you will always be there, regardless of life’s obstacles.

How to Make Your Cards and Letters Extra Special

The following are great tips that make your letters fantastically awesome and special.

Let’s get started on this;

1) Be yourself

Your letter or card doesn’t need to read like a Hallmark card.

Your loved one wants to hear your own thoughts and words.

2) Surprise them

If you know they are having a tough time, these open when letter topics can be a great surprise to send to your loved one.

It will brighten their day and get them excited for the next letter they get to open.

3) Add trinkets

It doesn’t have to be a gift you buy in a store.

Let it be something around the house or something handmade; a picture, a special photo, or a memento from your last date.

Anything that would be special to them.

4) Send in a care package

If your loved one is away and misses you, sending these ‘open when’ letters in a care package can be a great source of comfort.

Add a few home-cooked goodies A piece of your clothing that smells like you Or a photo you last took together Anything that could make them feel at home.

5) Send when they need something good

Sending these ‘open when’ letters are great when they need something out of the ordinary in their life.

This will make your letters seem heartfelt, prove that you care about them and that you want to make them happy.

In conclusion…

These viral open when letter ideas are not a ‘cheesy’ thing the internet has come up with.

It actually is a sweet and loving thing to make the people in your life feel special.

You can write open when letters for a boyfriend, girlfriend, siblings, parents, best friends, etc.

These ‘open when’ letter topics can tide your loved one over until you can see them, as well as remind them of the times you have spent together.

Make sure you and your loved one follow the rules and make your ‘open when’ letters special with decoration, gifts, and putting thought and effort into each letter.

Your partner is sure to love these sweet letters and fall deeper in love with you.

Now that you know what to do, get started, and make your loved ones’ day a little more special!

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